2006-10-30 15:28:08 · 19 answers · asked by john s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think we can give u advice just by reading that one sentence..but from that one sentence it seems like u dont take relationships seriously...Looks like u base relationship with girls on only "Attraction" and sound like ur not even ready to have a decent relationship with anyone...i do hope u realize that beauty is only skin deep...Real relationships arent just based on attraction theres alot of other factors involved....but i think its hopeless to get u to understand that..
2006-10-30 15:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by MyStEriOuS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, ignore the likes of Heinz M....that guy has probably been dumped a few times too many so he can't stand to see someone happy in a relationship.
I agree--we don't have enough information to really make any good comments. It depends on if you still love her, if she has changed drastically since you've been together, etc. Maybe you do have commitment issues; it's impossible to know. But, if you are basing your relationships entirely on looks, you will end up a lonely old man. There are so many more important things to worry about. I would recommend the book How to Be an Adult in Relationships. I read it and think it would be helpful to anyone.
2006-10-30 23:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by schweetums 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long is a long time? I mean 6 months, 2 months, 10 yrs.? It may be that you have a commitment problem or has she done something wrong?
I have been reading the other answers, what the hell is wrong with you people? Don't encourage a breakup. He said he is starting to lose interest. He didn't say her was definitely sick of her! That's whats wrong with everything these days nobody want to put in the time and effort, they all just walk away , and encourage everybody else to also. How are you ever going to have anything meaningful like that????????????
Relationships are not like toys that children forget about when they get tired of them or something you can purchase at a store and return for your money back. These are real feelings that involve real life people. If you are thinking of leaving or breaking up, you must take a long time to think about it. You should think about the times you've been happy with this woman and try to picture in your mind her with someone else. Try to picture yourself without her forever. Remember you may not be perfect either, and will someone else put up with your quirks & habits. she already knows what they are. If it is sexual, you can certainly fix that. There are a lots of things like movies, toys & books that can spice it up. Just try I think you owe her that much if she has been good to you!
2006-10-30 23:29:38 · answer #3 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Find some other ways to find eachother seductive. Sometimes relationships dont because of that. We tend to develope new desires.
2006-10-30 23:29:32 · answer #4 · answered by vaiosoft 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its time to end the relationship and move on with your life
2006-10-30 23:33:38 · answer #5 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you better move on! just be honest to her and tell her how you feel...she will understand...after all, if she loves you, she won't let you wait for that long time!!! find someone who will be happy to be with you and who will make you feel the same way too...
2006-10-30 23:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get rid of her. there few things worse then geting stuck with a girl you have no attraction to..... like getting married a a dog ungl girl that just nags all the time. that would suck ..........
2006-10-30 23:32:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The decent thing, break up with her. Otherwise one of you will cheat on the other and all that drama associated with betrayal and accusations will commence.
2006-10-30 23:31:17 · answer #8 · answered by Dane 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her the truth. the pain's only gonna be worse when you keep putting it off. Forcing yourself to like the girl ur dating doesnt help you (mentally, socially, etc), but before you do, please be nice about it and say that you still care about her but your feelings have changed.
2006-10-30 23:32:47 · answer #9 · answered by gumm13b34r 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Switch it up-do something completly diffrent , at a diffrent time and a diffrent place.. ( or a diffrent person!)
2006-10-30 23:29:47 · answer #10 · answered by BuRn Di WiSdOm WeEd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋