In a relationship where a woman and man are a couple, should either one of the parties expect to spend the majority of their time with the other or should they both give each other a period ot time to miss each other, and how long should that be?
2006-10-30 15:04:33 · 12 answers · asked by mz. t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's very important for each one to have his/her alone time and not forget about his/her friends and family. When one makes the other his/her world, he/she ends up suffocating the other (without intending to), and in turn pushes the other away (he/she gets scared). Should something happen to one of them, the other will be lost and alone. After spending some time apart, the couple will have lots to share, and will have missed each other. "Absence makes the heart grow fonder" is what they say!
2006-10-30 15:13:06 · answer #1 · answered by rebosgg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!
A relationship is a thing made up of two whole people. Each person should have a rich and interesting outer life, and together they form a new thing, a third thing, that is the relationship. It is bad news when one expects the other to be their everything or give up friends or activities. Don't crush whatever attracted you to that person in the first place.
2006-10-30 15:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES YES YES....let me tell you ...who I thought was my true love til the very end...well it was weird because i still wanted to make sure that every friday I was with my girls and he with his boys and then saturday would be our night out....then i met my #2 and i actually didn't want to spend time out without him...so that got me thinking..well then maybe the 1st wasn't the real one after all...now #2 is my husband...but i can tell ya...after awhile him always being around started to get to me...i called up one of my friends who had gotten married and she said "That's why you get a place where there is an extra room in it..one of you can retreat in it to do your own thing...so now...i'll be in one room watching my own show and he could be on the computer in the next..however you NEVER dump your true friends over some guys...you include them all....many a night i may drag my hubby out and he laughs and tells his friends he's going out with his flock of girls...and sometimes a friend or 2 of his come along....and as far as asking how long apart..that's a personal choice but it sounds to be like you are having doubts all together about this relationship...."when in doubt don't"...is my old saying...you don't want to feel owned..no one should...
2006-10-30 15:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by TWISTER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!!!! No one like to be smothered all the time. I strongly feel that both people in a relationship (married or otherwise) should have at least one day per week to do whatever they wanna do..without the other getting jealous or demanding to know where they were and who they were with! This makes for a healthy relationship.
2006-10-30 15:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on the couple, some people need that time alone to be by themselves while others thrive on togetherness and hate to be apart. So i guess it is how you feel do you need a night out or some time to alone to meditate or just chill if you do then go for it if not then stick together. Whatever you do I hope it works out for you in the end
2006-10-30 15:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by lost_soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In psychological words, rather everyone has our very own very own section around them that we use to maintain to maintain ourselves (examine as: egos, beings) secure from others. that quantity of area differs whilst finding at relationships between 2 strangers, 2 acquaintances, 2 relatives, a verify and a new child, 2 enthusiasts, and so on. So, having reported all that gobblelygook, "giving a individual area" potential no longer crowding yet another individual; enable them to have their very own pursuits and relationships that don't unavoidably contain the different individual. In a healthy courting, you're able to have your very own area, plus shared area with the different individual. Ummm...think of of a Venn diagram: 2 circles, each and each with one area on the exterior, and then the oval area interior the midsection it is the overlap of the two circles (human beings' area.)
2016-10-03 03:07:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each person needs time to spend with their friends and each other and sometimes both mixed in. The relationship will get boring really quickly if you see your bf or he sees you all the time so alternate friends, bf, friends, date, double date, etc. it will be better that way
2006-10-30 15:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Two people should only spend time together when they want to and it's convenient for both of them. Too much togetherness will just make them dependent on one another. We all have lives to lead, right?
2006-10-30 15:06:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that we all need our space & it is up to the 2 how long that should be. My hubby & I do things together & separate & always keep in mind that we are a couple.
2006-10-30 15:07:42 · answer #9 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think everyone need their space dating or married couples all need time apart.
2006-10-30 15:08:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋