MY BOY FRIEND STAYS WITH ME AND I CAME IN FROM WORK AND HE WAS IN MY BED WITH MY FRIEND FROM THE 2GRADE 2 THE 11GRADE WE WERE STILL CLOSE I INTRODUCED THEM. I WAS JUST WATCHING AND CRYING WHAT SHOULD I HAVE DONE?
2006-10-30 14:11:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should have coughed discreetly, looked at them both with disappointment, then walked out on them both. In my experience with situations like this, silence causes more damage than yelling and fighting. The lack of emotion from you will mes with them more than you know. Move on hunny, you don't need friends or boyfriends like that, you're better than that....I know my answer probably won't be popular, but as someone who's been there before, my answer is one that is proven effective...GL;)
2006-10-30 14:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by hotmama1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is an image that you will not be able to erase so easy from your head. You should have told them both to leave w/out giving them time to explain. Their clothes would of been on the front lawn. If they would have had a problem leaving then thats when you pick up the phone and threaten for 9-1-1. You would naturally have started crying but it's less humiliating if you cry by yourself rather then allowing them to see you at a weak point. If it would not have been her then your boyfriend would have found someone else to snook up with.
2006-10-30 23:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by Charisma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have taken pics and posted them online and sent copies to both of their parents!
I once heard from an EMT about a situation exactly like this. The girl came home and found her man pounding some other chic, so she got a gun and put a hot one in the back of the guys head! After the cops get everything under control the EMT's come in and figure the guys dead. As he's putting on the toe tag the dude starts wiggling around so they rushed him to the hospital. I don't remember if he lived or not.
2006-10-30 22:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you something, if I ever caught my man with another girl in my bed, he would be out that door quicker than you could say oh no. I would not tolerate it and niether should you. I think men think they have it all if they don't get caught, but even the good ones get caught. Gurl if were up to me I would send him packing.
2006-10-30 22:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by jessicaball2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would of beat the **** plum out of that gurl then kicked him in the balls an threw all of his stuff out side and set it on fire.. an put all his clothes in the bathtub an pured all the bleach you have in the tub... Im sorry hun.. Best of luck!!!
2006-10-30 22:16:42 · answer #5 · answered by ohio_gurl042 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Left the house and came back with family to remove him from the house.
2006-10-30 22:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by Judy the Wench 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would use a very subtle approach...
KICK THE BUMS TO THE CURB...
...and not have anything to do with them again.
A person who loves you will not hop in the hay with anyone else, and a friend will not let him do it with her.
Simple as that.
2006-10-30 22:16:04 · answer #7 · answered by calledkevinalot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shoud have thought up a good alibi and shot them both
I hope you're gonna DUMP his *** ... and slap her as well
How can some guys be such a**holes
2006-10-30 22:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your boyfriend needs to find a new place to stay... and he can pick up his stuff from the street where you just tossed it all.
2006-10-30 22:14:44 · answer #9 · answered by TheSlayor 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need to find a new boyfriend..
2006-10-30 22:14:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋