Hello, this is part two of the question, probably the last part of the question. This is in continuance to a previous question posted yesterday with the title, "Why do women go back to their ex-boyfriends???" So if you want to read, most part of the background, please look that up and read before you answer this one. It would be nice to if you also wanted to answer Part I first.
So second part of the question is that I was wondering if I should email her and ask her why she went back with her ex-boyfriend and give me an explanation for it. I feel that she owes me that much after I treated her like a queen and respected her so much and how she treated me after each date. I mean I let some of the things slide like how she ended the date early on the first two, cancelled on me during a planned third, and broke my heart on the third and final date. Please don't give me a yes or no answer. Would like your input.
Your advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you very much.
2006-10-30 14:08:17 · 15 answers · asked by Pool Player 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As I said before, it is like an old pair of shoes, comfortable.
2006-10-30 14:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many women tend to date men like their father in a twisted attempt to some how repair that relationship. Or they find the bad boy exciting.
As far as an explanation forget it.
1)It was only 3 dates.
2)Few women will ever be honest about why.
3)She may not know herself.
4)Who knows if she's really back with him.
Just let it go, and happy it happened this early.
2006-10-30 14:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she does owe you that much, an explanation at least.
But do you really want to put yourself through this?
Listening to her rave on about why she likes an ex boyfriend more than yourself?
You will only get yourself even more upset & angry.
It is unfair that you treated her with nothing but love, and then she turns around & leaves you for someone else, but you know what? Two words: Forget her.
She's not worth wondering, sulking and crying over.
She treated you like a smallest thing on earth and left you without a word.
Don't give her the time of the day.
It will be hard to finally let go of someone you cared for so deeply but life goes on, and time will heal.
In the mean time, move on, do new things, keeps yourself busy so you won't find yourself thinking about her.
Catch up with friends, family members and don't talk about her to them explaining your feelings, like I said before, don't give a thought about her.
Move on to bigger, better things waiting for you.
2006-10-30 14:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people like role playing. It can be fun and really hot under the right circumstances. In many instances, it role play is perfectly normal (as porn can be) and has no malicious intent. But it sounds like you have a past that wouldn't lend itself to the "right" circumstances for role-playing or porn at any point. Does your bf know this? You can't expect him to just know. You have to talk to him. And considering that you plan to get married, I STRONGLY suggest pre-marital counseling. Your bf needs to know that you've had difficulty with your past. If you are so into each other as you say you are, then he will be perfectly willing to help and be supportive, and find other ways to make sure the sexual relationship you have is fulfilling for BOTH of you.
2016-05-22 14:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are looking for closure and you may not get it. If it makes you feel like you've accomplished something then send the email but don't expect too much satisfaction in the answer. If she didn't appreciate the things you did for her then it's nothing you did wrong. She's not ready to receive what you have to offer. Find someone who's ready, willing, and able to give as much as you do.
2006-10-30 14:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by ardeth75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's your fault buddy ~ the signs were loud and clear ~ the bad signs ~ If your date cancels more than once in a week and ends dates early, give it up ~ There are other women on this planet ~ Be done with her ~ You can't make her want you...
2006-10-30 14:12:35 · answer #6 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe they realized that they love them. maybe they never really stopped loving each other. when you sleep with a woman you make a bond. some times you can be to nice to some women they don't appreciate a good man they only like those who don't pay them no attention.
2006-10-30 14:16:49 · answer #7 · answered by sweet sexy san 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-08-19 17:21:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most probably they still have feeling for each other.
2006-10-30 14:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by Luke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we do it because we are stupid and we like the toture of all there crap. they were exes for a reason right. but we don't seem to understand that.
2006-10-30 14:12:52 · answer #10 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋