im 17 and a sr. my boyfriends 18, he graduated last yr. and he lives with me and my family... i really love him but i get tired of hanging out with just him all the time... sadies is coming up and i really wanna go with this other guy but im afraid to tell my boyfriend cuz i dont wanna hurt him or make him mad... i havent even told him that sadies was coming up cuz then i will feel even worse for not asking him to go with me! i know that if i go with my boyfriend i will feel tied down like i cant dance with other guys cuz it will make him jelious but i wanna go and have fun!
2006-10-30 14:04:59 · 8 answers · asked by tonni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont hide from him and tell all your feellings to him. That will be better for both of you
2006-10-30 14:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, he's living with you and your parents? That is a weird and complicated situation. You certainly shouldn't be dating other guys especially since you both are living in the same house. That must mean the two of you are rather serious. Anyway, you are too young for such a serious relationship. I don't know if he can find another place to live, but you should recommend he do so. If you want to move on and find someone else, you should at least wait until he is no longer living with you.
You are young and should explore the world and other guys before you get too serious with another guy. Although you can learn much for being so close to another human being. This is a bad situation. Just say no to the other guy right now and evaluate your relationship with your boyfriend. It is normal to want other guys but if you have a good realtionship with your current boyfriend don't blow it.
2006-10-30 14:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by trinitybombshell 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no telling what might happen. If you don't try, you'll never know. I had a crush on a girl all year. She was in my math class and maybe one other. We sat together and talked all the time. It was a lot of fun. I liked her, but we were just friends. She was cute, smart and for high school...her breasts seemed huge to me. I was shy, but sometimes I just couldn't help but try to catch a peak at that cleavage. I wouldn't have known how to handle it if ever I had the chance, so all this was just in my stupid head. Anyway, I finally decided that I would ask her for a date. She didn't expect that from me. Her face showed that she was caught off gaurd and shocked. Realizing that I must have lust in my heart, she sort of freaked and said no. She also happened to be a hardcore church goer. Her conservative, prudishness might have had something to do with it. We really never talked much after that. It just got uncomfortable. What a bummer, but no regrets, because what's the point. I felt the need to either move it to the next level or just deal with a little heartbreak. For most of us, ore often than not, it's going to be heartbreak.
2016-05-22 14:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you talk with your boyfriend and tell him you are not ready to be tied down. This way, you or he can experience other people. I don't think you should keep this from him, it wouldn't be fair to him. You sound like you need to be on your own for a while, experience other people and decide what it is you want. It's a serious matter planning a future, just be sure you have gotten everything out of your system, you are young yet, there is a big world out there. Just be honest with your boyfriend.
2006-10-30 14:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love this guy then you don't need to ask another guy out. You are to young to have a guy live with you because you can't experiance life like you should. He needs to move out so you can act like a child. Enjoy life before you hit the real world with work and school. good Luck !
2006-10-30 14:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by Ready G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only are you wrong, it sounds like you don't need to be in a relationship. You need to sit down, and have a loooonnnggg talk about your relationship, because it seems like you are feeling tired of being around him all the time. That's understandable considering the circumstances, but it's also best if you are upfront and honest with him about how you are feeling.
2006-10-30 14:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by LibraT 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your boyfriend if you are going to go with another guy to Sadies. Your boyfriend will be pissed at you.
2006-10-30 14:07:28 · answer #7 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your bf to it, and once there, you can ask who ever you want to, to dance. But you should dance with him, the most.
2006-10-30 14:27:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋