I want to know if anyonw would date someone who was really sexy but had no substance....or an unattractive person who was amazing. I dont think some people know how to look past looks....
2006-10-30 14:03:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is sad that people do consider look important. But I found that few people who are all together-do look at inner beauty of a person. Not all guys or girls do that, but our society points at look as important-which is sad, because our younger generation focus so much on that! Thats why there's so many self-esteem problems now a days. If everyone make a decision to compliment anyone for the attribute instead of their looks- it will make a big difference. By the way, I believe we are all God's children-beautiful children- He didnt created any ugly duckly. Ugly duckly comes out when we do believe that! I dont! I might not fit the Celebrity profile-but who cares! I know I am beautiful-happy! Its all in the mind!!! I really believe that! Everyone is attractive- it all depends on them-how they represent themselve. Dont you think so?
2006-10-30 14:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by smiley710 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The look is the first thing you see in a person; therefore, is has a lot to do, but is not EVERYTHING!
I have dated hot guys with no "substance" has you phrase it. And, I have also dated not very attractive guys that are just amazing. In fact my ex was great! Someone who I could talk and debate on hot topics and was not into just sex and clothes.....
In many cases you have to sell yourself. Like in interviews, you have to present yourself confident and looking GREAT! I guess it really depends on each individual.
2006-10-30 22:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would date an unattractive person that is absolutely amazing, what do looks matter?? If you're absolutely in love with the person inside of course you're going to fall in love with the person on the outside...... :) this world emphasizes too much outward beauty instead of internal beauty....our values have gone down the toilet...... People need to learn how to appreciate inner beauty......I now know what it's like to have a guy appreciate you for the person you are inside, as well as the person on the outside, it's an absolutely amazing feeling.... *sigh <3
2006-10-30 22:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by bekki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks aren't everything. It also has to do with what is inside of a person. They can be ugly but the best person on the inside.Looks does help a little. But I would choose someone by how they treated me and acted before i would looks.
2006-10-30 22:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by Ready G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are the first initial thing. For instance, if you saw someone who was VERY unnattractive, you wouldn't go up to them and talk to them in the essence of "He is ugly, but I bet he will have a very nice personality. Probably a dateable person." Appearance is the relationship beginner.
But NO...looks are most definetly not everything.
Someone can be completely gorgeous, but be a complete and total jerk.
2006-10-30 22:06:44 · answer #5 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks are NOT everything, but i'd be lying if I said they weren't a factor. It's just human nature. But what's great, is when you can learn to love in spite of looks, and the superficial stuff. All that on the outside will fade anyway.
2006-10-30 22:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES looks are everything .....I just had to go through this question myself... I met this really great guy ..personality..great job..responsible..but the attraction wasn't there for me... At the end of our dates I found myself not wanting to kiss him ...BUT it wasn't a problem for me to hug him.. I also found out the more I was around him the less "looks" bothered me.. On the flip side if I was dating a guy that was HOT and it was his ONLY quality I wouldn't be able to be myself around him....SO...I wouldn't want either of the two you listed above in your question..I want someone with qualities and looks that balance themselves out....
2006-10-30 22:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by xcura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well usually looks are everything but I think that be just me. I do have a friend that likes any girl 'cause he be lonely, but I would still go out with a girl only if she has brains and some good looks!!
2006-10-30 22:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is two different levels. Looks are very important when a man is considering a woman. Looks are less important when a woman is the party that is considering a man. They are never absolutely unimportant.
2006-10-30 22:10:55 · answer #9 · answered by Sam P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks, not so much. Attraction - absolutely. Attraction is based on many things: personality, intelligence, character, and self-esteem; in addition, I would add compatibility, and complementary differences. Looks are relative.
2006-10-30 22:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by irishman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋