this guy i like, i am thinking about asking him to dance, at our next school dance. At the last dance i was about to ask him then decided not to, but my friend asked him to dance for me (i did not ask her to ask him!) And he said no. Some of my friends are telling to ask him to dance and some are saying i should forget him and move on. Also he is kind of popular and i am not really popular (but i am NOT a nerd).
Overall the question is, should i ask him to dance or not?!?!?!?!?!?!
(P.S) I don't know if he knows i actually walk this earth
but my friend said, that he knows who i am.
2006-10-30 14:01:36 · 11 answers · asked by xxripapartmybleedingsoulxx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i had the same trouble last year actually and yeah 2 guys asked me and i asked the guy i liked and it was a big mess. but im glad i asked him i think you should go for it. i did and he said yes but it was too late. if he says he doesnt know if hes going or has to think about it forget him, im sure there are plenty of guys that would love to go with you. And you dont NEED a date for the dance you would be surprised how much fun youd have with just your friends. i went with just one of my guy friends and had the best time while if i had gone with who i intended to go with i would have had a bad time. I was sooo glad it ended up that way! but of course if he doesnt go with you make sure he knows how much of a good time your having and how badly he wishes he had gone with you. Go for it and usually friends asking guys doesnt go over well i mean they are not going to admit that they like you because they are afraid too of rejection and they dont want you to find out that way so give it a shot!
2006-10-30 14:08:50 · answer #1 · answered by ugly truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have answered so many questions like this in the past 2 days...
All you girls think you should be the one initiating the relationship with the guy. You are wrong.
If he wanted to go to the dance with you, HE would ask YOU.
You will seem very desperate, needy, clingy, and very unnattractive to a guy if you "chase" him like that.
One of the biggest determiners of a relationship to a guy is the chase that they get for the girl before it. Let him chase you. Let him be worrying about how he is going to ask you to the dance, not you him.
If you did get in a relationship with this guy, it would be out of pity for you, which is not what you want. It would be out of pity because you seem so needy, and you asked him. Let him ask you, and you will at least know if he for sure likes you. The biggest part in a guy becoming a man is for him to be able to muster up the courage to ask out a girl.
2006-10-30 14:05:12 · answer #2 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. What will it hurt. You know what he will be missing out on. He will see when you walk in the door. Don't let it bother youif he says no. There are other fish in the sea. You will see that it will all work out. If you really like this guy then just show him what he is really missing out on the night at the dance.
2006-10-30 15:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by Ready G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what could it hurt. The least he could say is no, the nleave him alone and find someone else if he does. Try not to be so obvious though, just be yourself, he may take the hint.
2006-10-30 14:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by toya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead ask him, but have a guy you know will say yes on the back burner or at least party with a bunch of friends
2006-10-30 14:04:49 · answer #5 · answered by clover spots 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are not that many black pupils at my college the two and no one seems to care approximately anybody's pores and skin coloration. the sole racist comments I ever pay attention are from the old adult adult males that stay out interior the country portion of city. so which you ought to merely attempt, likelihood is, he would be large with you.
2016-12-28 08:36:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is yes, because if you dont youll regret it for the rest of your life, and if he says no well then hes not good enuff for u anyway
2006-10-30 14:05:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask him; but no offense, it doesnt look very promising. and tell your friend to stay out of it next time- i know she was just trying to help you but thats not her descison to make.
good luck!
2006-10-30 14:04:43 · answer #8 · answered by sakic_cikas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him. try and see the outcome in order not to regret anything later on
2006-10-30 14:04:57 · answer #9 · answered by afon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him the worst he can do is say no.
2006-10-30 14:04:37 · answer #10 · answered by montana_infantry_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋