ok, so last friday i asked this girl if she wanted to hang out this weekend and told her i liked her. shes never had a guy tell her this before (dont know why- she is beautiful!) and it seemed like she was taken back. she said she actually had a ton of homework but maybe another time.
so i passed by her in the hall today, i said hi to her and she just looked at me and smiled. not quite sure if thats a good thing or not... but whatever.
anywho- now im debating calling her tonight to sort this all out and try and arrange a date if she returns my feelings. is that a good idea? or should i cool it, and just wait for her to maybe talk to me?
2006-10-30 14:00:21 · 17 answers · asked by sakic_cikas 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she likes you, but she's shy. Go ahead and call her!
2006-10-30 14:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to cool it for a bit; I'm sorry to say, but she just doesn't seem interested. Or maybe she's just confused and kind of nervous about the fact that you told her that you like her. Just try to get to know her better and stuff. Just talk to her in the halls, in class, etc. Check out her body language; if it seems good (knees crossed pointed towards you, not crossing arms, looking you in the eye...) then try to make some plans. Good Luck!
2006-10-30 22:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by amyx3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait buddy. Life is too short. Go for it pick up the phone and suggest another date idea.
Don't be nervous about the smile... she was probably just trying to be cute, mysterious, and get a feel for you. A smile is better then a evil stare... I think it's all good.
Have fun, and if you don't want to talk to her tonight, consider speaking with her in person. When you talk to someone in person it makes it so much easier to see the other persons true reactions. Good luck
2006-10-30 22:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in some cases you give her a call but don't mention the date right away. Talk to her first and let her ask her how she is doing and start a conversion. As soon as you both feel comfortable then in good from of words ask her if she is not busy and then mention the date. If that doesn't work then give it some time.
2006-10-30 22:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by Luke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if shes like me or any other girl for that matter shes probably waiting for you to call her. She really could have had homework and she may have been having a bad day who knows. Try and call her and talk to her about whats going on. You have to make the first move before she will respond.
2006-10-30 22:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by Courtney C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow....this is almost exactly my situation......on the first day of school, this guy I didn't even know told me i was pretty and I was like WHOA....cuz no guy has ever told me that before. And so we talk all the time, but not over the phone. I say call her, it's hard for either one of you to get up the courage to call, but she'd probably appreciate the fact that you are being diligent and purusing her. She'll probably feel really special, and accept, depending on whether or not she's ready for it....Go for it dude!
2006-10-30 22:03:26 · answer #6 · answered by bekki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her tomorrow night...When she least expects it...(If you call her tonight she will think it is just because you saw her in passing) WHen you talk to her tomorrow have some small chit chat and end it with...ok "ill talk to you in a couple days and we can plan something" (this really means that you will be planning something and present it to her on Thrusday night (your next call) . Then Thrusday around 9:30 (not to early, not to late) give her a call and Viola!
2006-10-30 22:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by yayapoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u call her it may seem like ur being clingy and girls hate that! Try to keep it casual u know im her if u have aol instant messaging or talk to her in school but not in front of friends thats a lot of presure.but remember keep it cas.i hope this helps!
2006-10-30 22:05:59 · answer #8 · answered by blonde101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she talk about you to her friends? If she be smiling at you she likes you, she might be a little shy. I would call her and see if she wants to go out for dinner tomorrow. If she sounds a little funny on the phone then ask like she ain't around and see if she trys to talk to you at school.
2006-10-30 22:06:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should hang out more and get to know her better. When the it settles, you could call her or talk to her personally about it.
Don't jump too far ahead of yourself.
2006-10-30 22:04:03 · answer #10 · answered by fuzzycherrycream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋