I've liked this guy for about three years now and He likes me too ... but the only problem is, is that my two best friends in the world don't really like him or aprove of him and they think I could do alot better. Anyway I dont no what to do about it, should I stop our mine and he's relationship becuase my 2 best friends dont agree or should I continue my relationship with him and have my friends not be happy with me and my decision.
2006-10-30 13:59:01 · 23 answers · asked by Bekah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is this guy a really good friend to you? Because that's how the best relationships start. Why do your friends think you can do better? Think about why your 2 friends are behaving like this... are they jealous... or do they not know him like you do? Follow your heart, but be alert, sometimes your heart can fib to you. Just have a think about why you want to be with him. If all the reasons are good, then go out with him :) If they are true friends, they'll stand by you no matter what you do. I stood by my friend when she had a dud boyfriend, she soon found out what he was like. We are still great friends.
2006-10-30 14:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by afterglow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your life and you should choose what kind of guy you want to be with. And three years is a lot of liking, so perhaps there something serious going on.
But, since they are your best friends, you should definitely hear what they have to say. Listen to their advice, but you yourself should decide on what you would like to do. And if they are truly your friends, they'll learn to accept it.
2006-10-30 14:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by Peter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't "approve" of him? What are they, your parents? If you like him, and he likes you, then go for it. Your friends are not the ones in the relationship, you are. As a matter of fact, i'd bet 1,000,000 bucks that they are SINGLE. Usually, the single friends are the ones that always wanna dish out advice about romance, when they don't have a man to begin with.
2006-10-30 14:02:15 · answer #3 · answered by LibraT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your 2 firends jumped off a bridge, would you? I mean come on, if we all changed our minds b/c our friends didn't approve, then we would be the stupid ones! Follow your heart and mind. Forget what your friends think, they are probably just jealous of the relationship!
2006-10-30 14:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by toya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to your two best friends because they dont know the kinda guy you're after, and if you're really interested in this guy, take a chance and ask him out. your best friends hav to learn to accept the guys you like, and if they dont then you hav to ask yourself if they are your true best friends. that is unless they hav a good enough reason to not want you taking an interest in him
2006-10-30 14:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends don't run your life. They stick by you even if they feel you are making a mistake. You are the one in control of your life. If you like this guy and he likes you then more power to you.
2006-10-30 14:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take into consideration what your two best friends have said, but in the end follow your own heart to make your decision
2006-10-30 14:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I friend knows the real you for the most part most times. If they think you should not, think twice about it. I would be another issue if it was only one friend behooving you to steer clear of him...because it may have been that he/she was blocking.
2006-10-30 14:07:02 · answer #8 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what your heart tells you not what your friends tell you. If they really are your best freinds then they should be happy for you that you found someone no matter how much they dont like him.
2006-10-30 14:03:00 · answer #9 · answered by montana_infantry_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who is going to date this person u or your friends ? Go out with him for a week if u dont like him then just be friends ....
2006-10-30 14:03:58 · answer #10 · answered by aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋