ok when me and my bf are around other people, he seems to ignore me a little or say mean things to me or act like im not good enough or something, but when we are alone, he gets all close to me and likes to cuddle and talks baby talk sometimes, what is up with that? I hate it!
2006-10-30 13:50:01 · 15 answers · asked by Dreamer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you spend a lot of time together he probably just appreciates being around different people and talking to others. He may be ignoring you because he is excited to be around other people.
He may be being mean to you because he wants to show his friends that he isn't totally committed to you (even though it sounds like he is).
When guys are alone with their girlfriends they need just as much love attention and affection as women do.
Good luck... just make sure he is not too mean of course.
2006-10-30 13:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't respect you as a friend, he just likes the feeling of being close alone with you. You get to decide if that's good enough... if you're bothering to ask I would guess probably not.
2006-10-30 21:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's showing off in front of people like he's the boss. Guys like that will NEVER change! Don't brush this under the rug. I'd tell him to stop or hit the road, that u're better than that & deserve better too!
2006-10-30 21:54:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anna Banana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he is either unwilling to share his emotions with others or just wants you for a good time. Either way, he has a problem with sincerity. Sounds pretty immature to me. I'd get off the love boat if I were you.
2006-10-30 21:54:19 · answer #4 · answered by WhiteChocolate 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him how you feel and be honest with him and tell him that you don't like the way that he treats you when he's around his friends. You don't have to settle for someone who don't respect you around people, because there are plenty of men who would respect you. Think about it.
2006-10-30 21:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by s_reneeus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to impress other people and look proud.
Another reason is maybe he's shy in front of his friends, and the only way he can relate to you is by making jokes about you.
The best way to find out is to ask him yourself.
2006-10-30 21:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by fuzzycherrycream 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When your alone he wants to do more than cuddle, right? That's why!
2006-10-30 21:52:21 · answer #7 · answered by toosearch2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think he ignores just theres lack of chatter.
2006-10-30 21:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by NYC-BIGCAT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to act like the "macho man" just tell him how you feel and i'm sure he's gonna change...k good luck
2006-10-30 21:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like he is embarassed to be around you and is not mature enough to be with you. kick him to the curb.
2006-10-30 21:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by montana_infantry_man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋