I read in these stats where they reseached for 10 years and say girls who r chubby, (not slim) unattractive (ugly) and darkish usually end up alone and depressed and can't hold down a man, wich i personally belive is true, i mean think about it, we even see unattractive men who r chubby etc have decent women so basically women who aint good looking, aint got no chance to have a man even if hes ugly and chubby and only rearly chubby women get a man and thats cuz da man wants sumfin, or wants to use the lady and is desperate other then that, life and reality has shown the stats to be correct, i mean we can't deny human nature can we.
2006-10-30 13:38:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We talk about Love being important and all that Love is eye of Beholder or however you say it but are'n't people realising that Love is part of physcall attraction, to love someone you also have to be attracted to eachother and thats how you become to love a person in that way, you can love sumone's personality but can't be intimate with them, all that love talk an that is for people who are in denial i belive and want to use that as excuse to make them feel better, the fact of the matter is love is a big part of being looks and being attracttive together, you can love a chubby girl's personlity or anyone's but if they aint really attractive can you really be intimate with them? thats what im trying to point out, people have to use that term (love) sensibly.
2006-10-30 13:56:42 · update #1
People fall inlove for different reasons.
Everyone in the world is better at something than someone else.
We are all different.
If we are good people we find beauty in everyone.
Love will happen.
It is just a matter of time.
2006-10-30 13:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am brown skinned, thick and curvy, attractive and have never had a problem attracting men. I usually have more coming my way even when ther door is closed. Granite, I have never been described as chubby but I do have a few extra pounds, they are just packed nicely on me and I just know how to fill out a nice pair of jeans! I am not dark skinned but nor am I light skinned. I am in between or as I like to say just your everyday round of the mill brown skinned gal with a pretty smile and figure. Am I tuting my own horn, HELL TO THE YEAH!!!!
2006-10-30 15:49:48 · answer #2 · answered by Charisma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chubby can be changed
unattractive is relative
darkish skinned is not necessary bad thing at all.
Many times than not, people being alone is because of their personalities and characters.
For ladies, there are ways to make yourself become eye-catching, if you know how to present yourself. The way you dress, your postures, you speak can make a big differences. Looks can help generate more conversation initally. But intelligent conversations can help getting a relationship going.
Like many people says, there is no ugly women/ladies, only lazy ladies. There are many ways to imrove your appearance if you learn how to package yourself nicely.
2006-10-30 13:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are who you think you are.Those statistics don't mean a thing,they put it together by polling skinny people.If you are talking about yourself,Stop judging your life on what someone else says,or think.The only way you or anyone else will end up alone is if you choose to be alone.If a man can get a decent woman,what makes you think you or any one else can't get a decent man?Change some things about yourself,starting with your attitude you.It is not human nature to be by yourself for the rest of your life.
2006-10-30 13:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think anyone would say that unattractive people are less likely to have a love life but they'd be wrong because beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you don't believe me, go to the mall sometime and watch the shoppers that go by. There's going to be LOTS of people that you don't think are attractive but they have a date or mate with them, someone did think they were attractive... or looked beyond the outside to the person they are inside.
Everyone is attractive to SOMEONE somewhere.
2006-10-30 13:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't read into that crap , you have to go out into the real world. There are some very unattractive people who are married and have kids. Why things are the way they are I don't know . But real felings go outside of looks and overlook flaws.
2006-10-30 13:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who gives a crap about stats? Those chubby, "darkish" (?) women probably have low self esteem. I know I would if they were posting stats like that about me. Don't pay attention to that stuff. If you are meant to find someone, then you WILL.
2006-10-30 13:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naw...they may not be the cream of the crop, but plenty of 'em have found love...a couple of em got a man before I did.
2006-10-30 13:40:49 · answer #8 · answered by FavoredbyU 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... girls dont usually go for looks. Guys do.. :) im not being bias lar! :D
2006-10-30 13:41:42 · answer #9 · answered by bonkified_fl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really get it ~ nor do I care ~ now why do you care??? ~ are you depressed and alone?
2006-10-30 13:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋