2006-10-30 13:33:24 · 23 answers · asked by Sweety 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's never nice to hurt someone. Just go on with your life and show him how happy you are after he had left.
2006-10-30 13:36:36 · answer #1 · answered by twenty_four 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone. Then, when he realizes what a good person he screwed over, that will hurt him more than anything. Revenge is sweet...but only temporarily. In the long run, you'd probably do better to just forget about him, and move on. The faster you do that, the faster you can heal. Don't give him the satisfaction of letting him know that he hurt you. And don't give him the satisfaction of spending even another second, worrying about him.
2006-10-30 21:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by LibraT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hurt him back because when you hurt him back it will look like you and your ex have something in common, hurting each other. It will be a negative sight for him and also for you since you did the same thing as he did.
2006-10-30 21:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by lois lane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you should lower yourself to his standards. Sure he hurt you. We've all been hurt before. The best thing to do would be not to do anything. Do you really want to hurt people? Don't let him know that he hurt you. That will hurt him more. Let him think that you don't care about how he hurt you. Rememeber, two wrongs don't make a right!
2006-10-30 21:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you ever want to stoop to his level? Plus 'getting him back' isn't going to make the hurt go away. The best revenge is to move on and forget about him.
2006-10-30 21:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by BAnne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to replicate what he has done to you? It would seem that justification will just put you in the same category as him, in which case the games will never cease. Put an end to it, close the door and keep your chin up. Above all, don't stoop to his level or you are no better than him.
2006-10-30 21:38:47 · answer #6 · answered by WhiteChocolate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything. You shouldn't stoop to that low a level if he really hurt you. Do you want to be considered to be on the same level as him?
It may hurt now, but you shouldn't do anything stupid because of it.
2006-10-30 21:37:30 · answer #7 · answered by kusainezumi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hurt you physically or emotionally ?
If he hurt you physically, then you hurt him legally by call cops.
If he hurt you emotionally, then you can revenge by taking care of yourself. Be a successful buisness women, drive nice cars, eat at high end restaurants and wear expensive jewlries.
2006-10-30 21:37:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't take that road. It will just escalate into a terrible experience. Just ignore him. He's out of your life (hopefully). You know what they say . . . living well is the best revenge. It's impossible not to think about him, I'm sure, but realize that anything negative you try to do to him will just bring you down to his level. Take the high road, honey. It's the right thing to do for yourself.
2006-10-30 21:38:37 · answer #9 · answered by Nightlight 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well revenge isn't always a good thing. If he hurt you was it physical,emotional, mentally??? I'm guessing you two broke up so if he hurt you & has no remorse for it then I wouldn't think twice about him. His loss! Keep ur chin up.
2006-10-30 21:36:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anna Banana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋