I met 'him' four years ago at the worst point in my life. He was so good to me and helped me through so much. We dated for awhile, but I needed to be alone and stand on my own two feet. I was devastated when he told me that was what I needed, but I realized very soon after that I could have never loved him if I didn't love myself first. We both ended up going our seperate ways but have stayed in touch, and every time we talk there is always SO much chemistry between us everytime we talk. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I love him with all of my heart. Tonight, I talked to 'him' and I talked openly about my boyfriend for the first time(he knew about him, it just was not brought up in our conversations) and he was strangely quite. I finally asked him if he needed to go and he said, "yes. I miss you. Take care." and hung up. What does that mean?????
2006-10-30 13:29:14 · 17 answers · asked by hc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means just that...He misses you. Men are simple. If you care about your bf, then file the I miss you words in the back of your mind so that they dont interfere with your relationship. If you are thinking this is some type of clue to run to his arms, I cant say. Call him and ask him, but only if you are willing to go there with him and sacrafise your bf.
2006-10-30 13:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by vanity planning 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, I can relate to this very well. I have a similar situation with my "ex" girlfriend. Had to go our separate ways for a while, but we still stay in touch, and every time we talk we miss each other like crazy. We just couldn't handle the distance and we had to much to solve in our own lives. From a guy's point of view, he wants you, and always has.
He wanted to give you time to go off on your own so that you can help yourself, but he was probably always willing to be there when you need him and would never leave you completely. Once you've done what you had to do, he wanted (and still wants) to be the guy who you are with in the end.
Believe me, he never stopped caring for you, and even if both of you "move on", I guarantee he never will stop caring for you.
2006-10-30 21:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by Tgrman80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could mean that he loves you still because he was quite.Maybe he feels like its not worth it to try anymore since you have a boyfriend & if he tries maybe he is scared of a negative reaction from you.Either way people change over years nothing stays the same not even love.Do whats best for you now keep him as a friend & maybe later on if it doesnt work out with you and your boyfriend it could work with him later.
2006-10-30 21:36:32 · answer #3 · answered by G Rock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps a little jealousy there. He may still love you. Perhaps he has been waiting for the right time to tell you and with you taking so openly he realized that you and him aren't going to get back together. Either way , talk about it. Sounds like the two of you have something special.
2006-10-30 21:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your b/f what are you doing with the other guy? You can't play with peoples feelings girl friend. Haven't you ever heard of the saying "WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND?" You hurt the other guys feelings. He said take care maybe he got the hint. I think you shouldn't play with their hearts. You should be strong enough to let one of them go so he can move on and be happy. If you love with all your heart you wouldn't want him to be unhappy right? In the end if you play this game any longer your the one thats gonna end up alone. I think you need to choose before you hurt him any more.
2006-10-30 21:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by teena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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He helped you; then he dumped you; but remained "friends".
He stays in-touch, but not too close, because he does not love you in a way as boy-friend-girl-friend. He does love you in that way you would love a bird who's broken wing to mended, and cared for while it healed. You always wonder how the bird is doing.
When you started talking about the current boyfriend... he got uncomfortable, and left.
No, he has been true to his word, and remained your "friend".
And one more thing, guys do not like to talk to girls about other guys. Simple.
You need to get your feelings free of this first guy once and for all.
People come into our lives at a time they were meant to...and when their purpose is finished, they leave.
When a person is MEANT to stay in our lives, they do!
stw
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2006-10-30 21:43:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it for it is. I guess he does miss you, but he also knows that you have a boyfriend, so he has feelings for you, but doesn't really know what to do about them. I would suggest talking to him, in person would be good or on the phone, whichever you prefer and see how he really feels. Who knows what could happen, take a chance cuz you might regret it!
2006-10-30 21:36:26 · answer #7 · answered by sweet kisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like to me he is prob a bit jealous. He still has feelings for you. It also sounds like you still love him! If you do then you have to tell your boyfriend how you feel. It will not fair to him to keep this from him. You need to decide whom you want to be with and stop playing games with these guys feeling and your own as well.
2006-10-30 21:34:59 · answer #8 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He misses the sound of your voice, your caring gentle nature..Jeez, can't guys get mushy once in a while. They like to chat just as much as girls do. He misses your friendship, your honesty, your trust..i can go on...
He misses everything about you and he misses the happy you that was once his...awww...
2006-10-30 21:34:21 · answer #9 · answered by Dick Tater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know what he means, he loves you and was hoping to give you time to get your life straightened out then come back to him. Now you have to choose who you want to be with. I vote for the man who has waited patiently.
2006-10-30 21:33:41 · answer #10 · answered by schell_75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋