I am friends with this guy. We'll call him T. Now T and I sorta work together. T and I hang out quite a bit, go out to bars. Now when he is drunk we make-out and get frisky (we have yet to have sex). When he is sober, T and I act like just friends. Now the question would be...is the only reason T likes me is cause he can get frisky with me when he is drunk or does he really like me and only has the courage to get that way with me when he is liquored up? I really wanna know cause I do not wanna waste time with him if he is just looking to get some *** from a friend.
2006-10-30 13:25:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i rekon he does like you, and like you said he cant realy express himself when hes sober. but then on the other hand i've had a few realy good fu*k buddys that i only get together with when im going to town. my advice would be to sit down and talk to him, be straight up.......if you like him
2006-10-30 13:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by rhisklee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he considers you a friend with a couple benefits. Guys get frisky when they drink, thats a fact. The only way you will know is if you ask when he is sober, or if he decides to tell you when he is sober. If you have fun with him as a makeout buddy when your drunk, then thats cool. If you feel like your heart might get involved, then stop and next time you drink tell him that you would rather not do that anymore. He will probably understand. Assuming that he is leaning on the side of only seeing you as a friend he will immediately stop sending you mixed signals. If he does like you, you will find out.
2006-10-30 21:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by E R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could go either way. What you need to do is sit down and talk with him about it. Don't put a lot of pressure on him, just keep it relaxed and easy. You seem to be willing to get with the booty call action so maybe you should play it like this...... "Hey we seem to come close to a hook up after hitting the bars, so are you interested in seeing if there's something more to this? Or do you just want a FWB (friends with benefits) type thing?" Listen/discuss his answers.
2006-10-30 21:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard the phrase, A drunk mind speaks a sober heart? You should talk to him about it if it bothers you.
2006-10-30 21:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by Steph L 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the best way is ask T what he wants from the relationship --- and you (as a lady) will have a pretty good idea if he lies ie says long term but wants sex only --- or even wants sex but is after something long term but not prepared to admit it
2006-10-30 21:30:27 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The romans said 'in vino veritas' or in wine the truth.
Talk to him, if it is just the drink then don't get in that situation again unless you want to be his sextoy when he is drunk.
If it is more then explore it.
2006-10-30 21:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by Axeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or this one a sober mans thoughts are a drunk mans words..........
2006-10-30 21:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by dj19991 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask him. It sounds to me like he is at least sexually attracted to you, but that may be it.
2006-10-30 21:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask .
2006-10-30 21:32:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋