There is this really cute/hot guy that likes me. I like him (love him is a better word) but i barely know him. He hasen't even asked me out yet, but already wants me to makeout with him. What should i say?
2006-10-30 13:22:16 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You barely know the guy but you say you love him?! Hmmmm... what's wrong with this equation? If you don't want to get hurt, then don't sleep with the guy. Save it for the one person that God will give you in marriage. Trust me on this one.
2006-10-30 13:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him on dates like most people do at first instead of just hopping in the sack. You should get to know him better first and make sure that he isn't seeing other girls also. If his cell phone rings all of the time when you both are out and he answers it and talks then he is not respecting you and the calls are probably from females if he is hiding the calls from you. Get him to respect you first instead of giving him what he wants. What do you know about him? Does he have a girlfriend? Of course he wants to makeout with you but is that all that he wants? I really think that you should date him a while before you just give in to him!
2006-10-30 13:51:45 · answer #2 · answered by Michael C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um wow is this a slutty question first its ultimate to be married or a least in love and whatev yet shouldn't you be attentive to his call previously....i don't be attentive to this may appear stupid to somebody such as you yet im a guy or woman with restraint and ethical
2016-11-26 20:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by marianna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you dare give it to him. It sounds like he wants to hit and move on once he rolls over in bed with you. You'll see a lot of cute guys in your life. Make these guys respect you. Your goodies will be with you for life. Don't earn a negative rep just because some guy was sooo nice to you and he's hot. Don't even get yourself in the position to get laid with this guy. You'll regret it if you do.
2006-11-01 07:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, by the way you just worded your question, by the fact you think your in love with some guy you barely know, and also noticing you confuse making out with sex, then NO you are not ready to make-out,have sex, or probably even date him!
He is going to take advantage of the fact that you have no clue whats going on and brag about it to his friends!
2006-10-30 13:27:28 · answer #5 · answered by E R 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is something that i want to reply and i hope that this helps you out one and foremost, listen to yourself barely knows there is nothing wrong with the good looks, but you are a booty call dont sell yourself short, be better than that dont set yourself up to get hurt and then he could care less about you if he hasnt took the time to get to know you or you family/friends havent taking you out for a one on one talk to see whats going on with you some ideas about you then move on be better, he wants your goodies and thats that get with someone that wants to get to know you and all you have to offer than how you are in the bed take care
2006-10-30 13:36:04 · answer #6 · answered by YOLANDA D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the guys moving too fast, and it sounds like he really just wants sex. he hasnt even asked you out on a date yet and he already wants to make out with you? thats not a good sign... tell him hes moving too quickly for you, and he needs to slow down. if he likes you, actually likes you then hell understand how you feel, and slow down. if he keeps pressing you, then hes only after sex and you dont need him around at all anyway.
2006-10-30 13:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by potato head 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO...HE IS CRUDE, and wants to relieve an itch, You are a relief of that itch! A dirty sock and Pietro;ium jelly would do just at well!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You actually do not love him, you LUST him, you ENVISION HIM,you see him in fairy tale types of settings, of true love, of hot sex, of eternally commitment!!!
YA>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>GUYS ARE DUMB PIGS!!!!!!!!
I can tell you who Willl raise the Kid, and who will deal with S.T.D. and with H.I.V.
Because, this male pig is only as clean as the last pussie he F*#$%ed. Get the UN appetizing picture???
You are the next victim 0f a creep who knows that you lust his pretty body. So he is gonna get a free piece and leave because HIS worth IS SO MUCH greater than YOURS.
Have the self respect to say F...You!
You have a world full of loving Sisters to encourage you to NOT BE THE NEXT DUMB *** VICTIM OF A MALE PREDATOR!
LADIES???????????????? RESPOND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SAVE A YOUNG ONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
No points are worth not helping this young girl to gain self respect! RIGHT???????????????
2006-10-30 13:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by bugsie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some respect for yourself. Why would you want to be involved with a guy who is only interested in having sex with you? Move on and get some self esteem.
2006-10-30 13:25:53 · answer #9 · answered by miss m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would say NO,no matter how hot or how cute he is you shouldn't really make love to a guy who didn't even ask you out yet..or noe you well,take it slow and easy..go out with him a few times only when the time is right then you go 4 it..n the kissing part..urh that's sorta up to you ;P
2006-10-30 13:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋