I went to a club on Friday Night and Im 16, so I couldnt get in (it was 17 and up)so I waited outside becuase I was told I could meet the band after the concert, and there was a guy selling hotdogs and he is in college and is probably in his 20s, and we talked for a while and he wanted me to stay but i think he was just trying to get me drunk. But i cant stop thinking about him.
2006-10-30 13:18:28 · 31 answers · asked by LREN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate to say it, but he just wants to get into your pants.
A 20-something doesn't have anything in common with a 16 year old. Don't believe me? Wait 2 years and THEN date him.
If, as you say, he was just trying to get you drunk, why would you want to be interested in him?
My advice? Raise the anchor and set sail for the next crush.
2006-10-30 13:20:20 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah thats cool im 23 my fiance is 28 although we are the two adults now, so only becareful i be attentive to 3 ppl that have been given in hassle like that he replace into 18 and seen a 16yr previous, no huge deal appropriate even though it is going to become one while mothers and fathers get entangled and dont like what they pay attention. So only becareful
2016-10-16 13:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you are so young, no. My parents have a large difference in their ages. For someone under the age of 25, there shouldn't be a larger age difference than about 1 or 2 years at the most.
2006-10-30 13:21:16 · answer #3 · answered by Meme 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It ok to like them but you're still a minor so I wouldn't do anything with the guy because of state laws and guys like that are probably wild.
Also, yes it's traditionally the guy that's older in the relationship when a couple gets married or is involved in a relationship (usually, though there are alot of exceptions). It's really just a personal choice, but you do have to comply with state laws.
2006-10-30 13:22:13 · answer #4 · answered by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you suspect he was trying to get you drunk, then he probably was. If you can't stay away from him, at least make sure you see him in a place where there are other people around, and don't let him fix drinks for you.
It doesn't matter what age someone is or what your age difference; if you feel they are trying to take advantage of you, then you should avoid them entirely or at least limit contact with them until you feel you can trust them.
2006-10-30 13:21:25 · answer #5 · answered by Scarlett_156 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, if you're under 18 the rules are different. Legally you shoudn't be dating someone that is 20. It could be trouble. After you turn 18, the older you get the less of a big deal it is.
2006-10-30 13:21:32 · answer #6 · answered by monica m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My boyfriend is 9 years older than me and this is the most beautiful and fulfilling relationship I have ever been in. Also girls are usually more mature than guys so it is healthy to have a bit of an age difference.
There are so many different facets to a persons personality, you can't limit it to how old they are. Look far someone who interested in don't look for someone the same as you. Good luck babe!
2006-10-30 13:22:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get out and dont talk to him or think about him. He is to old for you. If he is still in high school then cool try and date him thats ok. but out of high school that is wrong on so many levels. Chances are he will try and get you drunk and rape you or just rape you. So for your safety stay away from the guy.
2006-10-30 13:22:54 · answer #8 · answered by montana_infantry_man 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depending upon your state, it could be illegal for you to engage in a relationship. That being said, I am 24 and my fiance just turned 30. Once you are of an age of maturity that you can be expected and trusted to make decisions in your best interest, age doesn't matter.
2006-10-30 13:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its OK to like someone older than you but i would be careful if he was a stranger,maybe get his phone number and give him a call,but if you meet him again be a little more secure..after all you did just meet him..
2006-10-30 13:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋