Ok. I'm 15.. Over the summer, I fell in love. Dont say anything like I'm too young, just please listen. Well, here , where I live summer is may to august. ( its' already snowed at my house). So about 3 months ago, I spilled my guts to this girl, whose been my good friend since we were 7. Well she said she didnt like me like that. I suffered through that for about a month. Well then she emailed me, and said she really missed our friendship. So i told her it was just hard seein her, but promised her things would be better. They got better, I thought I moved on. Well yesterday, man I had a relapse. Me and her flirted kinda, ( she's a flirt, so you cant call it that) well anyways, all those feelings came back, and here I am again, wishing she would like me. I dont know what to do. I mean I see her all the time. This weekend, were goin with our youth on a trip to charlotte. My point is, I really love her, and i cant move on. Is thereany hope for the future?? Please help????
2006-10-30 13:16:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, what i can say is you gotta have courage and be in front of her and ask her: Do you love me? Be ready for anything and try to not be hurted if she laugh of you. You and her have so many secrets since you were kids, i think is good to share those secrets to you guys and still sharing for a looooong life ahead. What a beautiful thing will be to see you guys together saying both of you all those memories since you were kids.
2006-10-30 14:04:07 · answer #1 · answered by El guapo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to get rid of the attitude that she's the only one for you. This is a self defeating frame of mind and will only harm you in the future. It presents you as insecure and needy, an instant turn off for women.
Breaking the friends barrier is pretty easy, but since you already spilled your guts(so to speak), you have a lot of work ahead of you. Just realize that there are millions of women out there, and that missing out on one means nothing.
True love is far from your grasp.
2006-10-30 13:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by roadblock911 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she has made it perfectly clear that she sees you as a friend only and still flirts with you knowing how you feel about her I'd say she is manipulating you. Cut ties with her until she grows up a little. she is being cruel and immature. Maybe she is enjoying the sense of power at your expense. If she really loved you (I mean as a friend here) she wouldn't send out those mixed signals. She would respect your feelings for her and not lead you on.
2006-10-30 13:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"The course of true love never did run smooth", sez Willie Shakespear. Fifteen is _not_ too young to fall in love with a girl -- or, in your case, realize that you are in love with a girl who's been a "friend" for years. (It's just the age Romeo and Juliet were, if that makes you feel any better.)
Best advice I can give is not to fight your feelings. They will fade over the course of a year or so if she continues aloof. And if she doesn't continue aloof, and begins to show that she's got that kind of feeling for _you_, you will be in a position that lots of angels would envy. Good luck to both of you.
2006-10-30 13:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by Dick Eney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is hope. Give it some time, and maybe she will start to love you back.
2006-10-30 13:22:22 · answer #5 · answered by Arielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST FIND OUT WHAT TRUE LOVE IS THAN YOU CAN DEFINE WHAT YOU ARE REALLY FEELING FOR HER , BUT LIKE A GLOVE IF IT DONT FIT DONT FORCE IT LET FRIEND BE FOR NOW SHE JUST MIGHT COME AROUND JUST LET IT BE HER CHOICE REAL LOVE HURTS WHEN ITS ONE SIDED GOOD LUCK JUST BE PATIENTS
2006-10-30 13:24:02 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure there is hope, keep yourself busy and maybe if she doesn't change her mind, you'll meet someone else.
2006-10-30 13:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋