My xboyfriend and i havent dated for a while since over the summer,he says he still likes me but people at school say he plays all his girlfriends.he asked me to go to the movies with him and so i went .He kissed me and we cuddked abd we would luagh alot and kiss more,but... we arent going out....., it seems so real, but i dont know if i should trust my friends and peopke at chool or him. i would like to believe he accually likes me.
2006-10-30 13:09:16 · 17 answers · asked by iluvcheer618 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lynda M is wise beyond her years:
"Don't give him any and you won't be a booty call :) "
2006-10-30 13:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by submariner662 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys at that age are often afraid of commitment, they don't want to let their guard down, especially if he is a guys guy, who really enjoys hanging out with his mates. He may very well like you, and wants to hang out and be only yours, but doesnt want to be perceived as soft by his mates. It is so silly, but it happens all the time, a guy is a completely different person around a girl then when he is around his friends.
I really think you should simply ask him, tell him you enjoy his company and like hanging out with him because you feel you get along well. See his reaction, you can tell straight away in his eyes, body language and voice if he is interested or just playing with you. If he does hesitate, dont waste your time because then he might continue to do what he is doing. The longer this goes on the more it will hurt you in the end.
You sound like a very nice, sweet girl i am sure there is plenty of guys who would love to be with you, and give you the respect you deserve from a relationship.
Good luck sweetie, i hope it turns out the way that you want too. XxXx
2006-10-30 21:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by worriedgal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
booty call. believe your friends their on the outside looking in. they may hear things you don't because he only calls you for a movie. do you go out in public where everyone can see you? it sounds like he likes you for all the wrong reasons.maybe when he finds someone else you'll be history.why can't you ask him and tell him how you feel? You'll feel alot better and then you can have your answer instead of going with our advice. good luck
2006-10-30 21:16:42 · answer #3 · answered by teena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him.......and keep finding out through time that if he is just spending time with you only, and not other girls, then you should go on and give him a second chance and date him again, but if everyone else is tellin you that stuff that he may cheat on you and just using you to fill in his emptiness and lonely days, then move on and forget about him
2006-10-30 21:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order for him to have been an ex, he and you would have had to been attracted to each other (the hugging and kissing). But attraction and liking/loving someone are two different things.
If you do want to get back with him, just take it slow.
2006-10-30 21:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres the deal. Straight up ask him. Don't play around and wait to get hurt. Ask him and if he says yes, make him date you again. Don't let him use you just to get some action. He has got to either date you or walk away.
2006-10-30 21:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by autumnzank 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
.
Most guys feel that a girl that gives them sex before they know if they love her, is for only sex.
The exact same guy will become more interested in a girl if she lets him know she expects love from a relationship before sex.
If you want to be interesting, be your TRUE SELF, and be open about who you are; what you like, and don't be desperate for a relationship. Dont' be a doormat to please him...guys tire of this.
Be interesting in your own way, be fun, tease him in fun, let him know you like him a lot, but you expect him to have deep feelings for you for long-term before sex.
If he is a good guy, he'll like that and stick around.
If he's a player, he'll move on to girls that are easier to get his booty-call, and dump them quick.
Believe it
If you want a guys respect and caring
then you have to respect and care about yourself first.
stw
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2006-10-30 21:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a definite booty call unless you put a stop to it.
2006-10-30 21:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by mathlete1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just by the fact you referred to yourself as a booty call leads me know the obvious answer: yes. I didn't even have to ready your explenation.
2006-10-30 21:11:48 · answer #9 · answered by lucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Booty call.
2006-10-30 21:11:00 · answer #10 · answered by S K 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋