I fell in love at first sight. literally. i knew it was love because i never felt this way before. though he rejected me i didnt mind. i knew i could wait forever completely content, staring at him from a distance. i lost a lot of weight and started to look good. thats when he started to hit on me. i went to his house and he showed me a good time. we painted and we laughed, and joked alot. then he burnt me with a cigarette. i thought it was an accident but then he held the burning end of it to my leg. i didnt understand why he did it. he told me to chill out and that i was trippin when i asked him why. sometimes he calls me a whore, and calls me fat and ugly then says hes kidding. at first id cry everytime he said those things because i knew it was a joke but it still hurt. now i just sit back and take the jokes. i dont want him to stop liking me and he has made it clear that i ***** too much about his words. i dont think i am crazy. he never says that he loves me. do you think he does
2006-10-30 13:06:39 · 6 answers · asked by xsilverxthornx999 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that's abuse honey not love get rid of him you don't need him. you don't need someone saying things that bring you down. i personally think he's just going for your looks because you say that you lost weight and started to look good. you never know and to answer your question (its hard to say i don't want to hurt you) i don't think he loves you, he never has said he does and if he does then he has a screwed up way of showing it! so drop him, it may be hard at first but it will get you out of this abusive relationship. Good Luck!
2006-10-30 13:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He won't stop liking you honey, he doesn't like you now. Remove yourself from the situation and think clearly. What exactly do you like about him? From what you've told us he's an abusive schmuck. Put cigarette burns in all his clothes and leave.
2006-10-30 21:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by Tiijah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys don't say it, but show through actions....if he really loves you, he will care about you and pay attention to you- good luck
2006-10-30 21:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only you will know that in your heart. but from what you said it doesnt seem like he does, but he might not know how to show his feelings also...so try TALKING to him.if that doesnt work. drop him even though its hard..you can get better.
2006-10-30 21:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by ChrisnBrandi G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey - that is abuse, not love. Dump him.
2006-10-30 21:09:46 · answer #5 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not. dump him immediately!!!!
2006-10-30 21:10:21 · answer #6 · answered by alter_egob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋