because i been ask out on a date with a 19 year old young lady i don't if it right can you help only real answer no get in and s### her
2006-10-30 13:05:08 · 26 answers · asked by KING BENITEZ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you like her why not??age is nothing but a number..my past partners have been a lot older than me and no probs!!go for it!!good luck x
2006-10-30 13:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by Lydia K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is "YES". If you can find out her interests and classify yours and meet it midway . If you really in progressing into a more established relationship I would suggest that you take her out to some fun places that she likes, dinners, dances any social activity that interests her and eventually will interset the both of you. I am sixty-five, my girlfriend now my wife is just 41-years old. I was 53 and she was 29 when we started coating. We have two children aged 12 and 3 and are quite a happy family. This does not mean that you should plan on marrying the girl. Get to know each other better and this does not happen over night. Who knows some day you may tie the knot, if she proves to be your MIss Right in your sight and she she sees you as her Mr. Right.
2006-10-30 15:41:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmmm, it all depends weather the 37 year old has money, is he does then she is only after that im afriad. but if he is an average 37 year old bloke then there is no reason why it cant work. older men is a turn on for some young people. but you have to remember she is going out to meet her young friends and out drinking round lots of blokes, thats hard work, you cant go along as you will be out of place 19 year olds like to have fun and there attitude to life is alot different to us oldies. just becareful. take it very slowley, before it gets serious think are you going to be jealous everytime she goes out, is she with someone her own age. just becarefull
2006-10-30 19:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by chicken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't rely on whether other people think it is ok, you need to decide. Will it make you feel uncomfortable to be seen on a date with her? Will you feel like a 'cradle snatcher' when you kiss her?
I personally don't see a problem, if you both want to date great. As she is young though you should probably not expect anything long term from her. Just enjoy your time together and see how it goes. If that's not for you though then you might be best off turning her down.
2006-10-30 23:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All i can say is you bridging a generation gap. Most people who say you should not are the ones who are increbibly jealous of one thing or another.
I remember I was dating a girl of 20 when I was 30 for a short period. We have remained good friends even though we went our differnt ways. She will even on occassion ask for advice on life in general. So don't listen to the haters and backbiters. Do what you feel is right and enjoy lifes rich pageant!
2006-10-30 19:30:17 · answer #5 · answered by Vinyl Junkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yes. I'm 36 and dating a 19 year old. We get on great and are now looking for a place to call our own.
2006-10-31 23:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by spear_1021 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you can but it is more likely to fall apart, I hate to say, simply because you are both at such hugely different points in your life - but go prove me wrong !! I went out with a 32 year old when I was 19
2006-10-30 13:52:41 · answer #7 · answered by mcascadd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since she is over the legal age then its ok. my uncle is 34 and married to a 20 year old. if she asked you then there no harm in going out on a date. you wont know wether it just a date or wether its more. just go on the date and see what happens.
2006-10-30 13:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by sarah p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 4 it but just remember she only 19 this may mean a lot more 2 her then u
2006-10-30 20:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by hayley m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you 'have to ask,' then 'No,' you can't.
what does > i don't if it right can you help only real answer no get in and s### her < mean?
My girlfriend is 26 years younger than me. So I'm not one to go and say 'it's wrong.' But if the girl thinks it ok enough to ask you ( ''SHE ASKED YOU'' ) out, then I'm really don't know why you are asking ~ in spite of her being around half your age.
Sash.
2006-10-30 13:59:41 · answer #10 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is just the number, you are not going out with age you are going out with a person
I was with my ex for 14 years and he was 14 years older than me, we met when i was 16 and he was 31. we separated a year ago.
You should be asking questions like, can we laugh together, can we talk to one another, do we like one another enough to see one another again, do i like her for the person that she.
If you answer yes than why not.
age is just a number not a person
good luck
2006-10-30 20:41:19 · answer #11 · answered by blondegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋