so, my ex and i have a pretty heavy past (7 yrs known, 3 years dated, cheated on me, kept in touch...)...however, we met up for the first time in a year a month ago. after that, i couldnt stop thinking about him and have yet to see him again. i would text him and nothing. i finally wrote saying, should i stop contacting you because if i should, tell me...he then started to text me more often to go out. problem, ive been busy. and, he's not a person to be real forward with emotions...how do i get him to open up to me without putting him on the spot?? we're meeting for coffee soon....
2006-10-30 13:02:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he might not open up.
but let him know that
he can trust you and
if he still doesn't open
up then just let it be.
he might be the kind of
person who does't open
up to a lot of people. my
ex boyfriend was like that
but when he finally did open
up to me, it was too much for
me too handle. sometimes its better
for them to keep it to their selves.
2006-10-30 13:09:12 · answer #1 · answered by dana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't open up before. Why would he now?
2006-10-30 21:05:37 · answer #2 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋