i am volunteering for a program called nurturing connections....the basics are: i get the name of the new mom, the name and weight/length of the new baby, and a few facts like if mom is breastfeeding, whether she had a c-section or normal delivery and when she'll be home from the hospital...what my job is, is i have to call her about a week after shes home and just offer any advice, or phone numbers she might need...kindof like a friend to talk to about the boring stuff and to make sure shes ok, especially if she doesnt have much help...im not a prfessional, just like to help. MY QUESTION IS THIS...if you were to be in the program, what would you want me to ask and what were your worries and questions? because i dont want them to think im acting like i know all this stuff, cuz i dont..but i will get them any info they need..i also dont want to be a bother, i make sure they arent busy...but im rambling lol so what would you suggest i ask about when i call them???? thanks in advance!!=0)
2006-10-30 12:36:12 · 6 answers · asked by thatgirluknow 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
ps... the moms are not referred to us or anything...its strictly a voluntary thing..they decide if they like the prgram=0) thanks again!!=0)
2006-10-30 12:42:27 · update #1
Newborns really have a limited repertoire -- you should ask about feedings (both formula feeders and breastfeeding moms probably have LOTS of questions), diapering, and sleeping (and lack of it for new moms!). Maybe some screening questions for post-partum depression or even "baby blues" and making sure the new mom has some relief or help. Great thing you're doing! Good luck!
2006-10-30 12:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by dockidny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask how she is feeling. somehow we forget the mom has tender feelings after a birth and the baby gets all the attention. but if we hold her up and let her know she has a very big job now, there is someone, tiny and so helpless that needs her love more than anything. stir up the mother in her, the protective, nurturing, pride, the i will do anything for my child will kick in. because sometimes the diaper rash, the crying when we do not know why, the up all nights, takes a parent that loves the baby and wants only the best for them. so make sure she is up and happy and then the small things will work themselves out.
2006-10-30 12:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by imawatchman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that a program like this is a really good idea. When you call them on the phone just ask them if they have any question and then offer some help if they like. I know that I would have really liked this after my son was born.
2006-10-30 12:53:35 · answer #3 · answered by Rosey55 D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think advice and support around breastfeeding would be helpful. Usually around that time moms are getting frustrated and exhausted and likely to give up nursing. It would be helpful to be encouraged in this matter. Also maybe about post partum depression resources.
2006-10-30 13:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by VANESSMC99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can talk to her about anything. Odds are, if she's at home alone with an infant all day, she'll talk about hobbies, the baby, or anything else you can think of... sometimes it's just nice to know someone cares.
2006-10-30 13:41:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I wouldn't refer to a woman who had a c-section as not having a "normal" delivery. You either have a c-section or a vaginal delivery.
Good Luck
2006-10-30 13:14:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋