Long ago,
I had a fiance. Yes, we had spent seven years together and were finally ready and old enough to get married (Young love). He is my deepest soulmate, we were exactly the same in almost every way, and I am REALLY REALLY WEIRD.
Well, tragically, he died in a car accident (Redundant! People need to find a new way to leave the world)
Well, for two years I didn't really like any guys. Everyone who asked me out I said no or dated once. I have such incredibly high standards, I knew I would never meet anyone with them which is good since I have extreme loyalty to my late fiance.
Anyways.
Then I was walking around downtown
And met this guy. Totally not my type, blue eyes blonde hair, I like um ethnic, really. But damn, we really hit it off. Not that our spiritual connection was like my late fiancees and mine but when we spoke it was like we were the only two there. We both model and believe in abstinence. He lives in GA though (already gone back. I live in AZ What to do?! Is it worth
2006-10-30 12:28:42 · 5 answers · asked by Jenny A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So very sorry about losing your love and I know you will always treasure the place he holds in your heart, but it is time for you to open the space again and allow others in. Whether or not it is this guy from GA, only exploring the connection will tell. I can tell that you have a lot to offer another potential soulmate. Please allow yourself... AND another fortunate being that chance. BE WELL.
2006-10-30 12:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by Serendipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that it is hard...I know that you had/have a deep connection with your fiancee...But I think that what your fiancee would want for you is for you to be happy.
If you really hit it off with this guy, it could be the start of something great. Of course he can never replace your fiancee, because he was a special guy, but he CAN make you happy. You don't ever know what it could be if you don't give it a try.
Do it for your fiancee so that in heaven he can smile down on you and say "thats my girl...you could be really happy with him."
Be straight up and honest with this new guy and let him know about your fiancee...I think that he will definetly respect it...
Give it a shot!!
2006-10-30 12:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a shot! It's time to move on and I think you're finally getting to that point. Hope everything works out!
2006-10-30 12:32:27 · answer #3 · answered by S. Elizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it!!!!!Don't forget the past just leave it behind and live!!!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-10-30 12:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by Janey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..you should go for it
2006-10-30 12:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by cute as a button!.♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋