ive been wit my boyfriend for 10 months and our relationship is pretty good...but ive recently started talkin to this guy that i meet at work, but hes married and says he wants to leave his wife cuz he doesnt see himself wit her in the future.. i really like him but at the same time i love my boyfriend and i dont want to hurt him... i dont want to leave him for the married guy cuz its not a guarantee that it would work wit him or if he would leave his wife like hes says he is....plz help..im so confused???!!!??
2006-10-30 12:26:21 · 9 answers · asked by blank 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should avoid the new guy. he seems to be trying to lure you into some sort of affair and may have no plans to leave his wife. if you want to leave the current boyfriend because you don't have strong feelings for him that's one thing. however, the new guy doesn't sound like a very good prospect.
2006-10-30 12:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by WxEtte 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please don't fall for this lame and overused lie. First of all you have NO FUTURE with a married man. He will not leave his wife. Second, if he cheats with you he will cheat on you. If you have someone in your life and things are good stick to what you know. Don't go chasing waterfalls. The reality of all of this is that you're excited and fascinated by what I call drama. Please, don't believe the hype. If you leave a good relationship for this jerk I promise you will regret it. You say that your relationship with your boyfriend is pretty good well spend that extra energy and time you have researching ways to spice up your relationship and make it great. Truthfully, you're not confused you want someone to give you the ammunition to do something you've made up your mind to do. Take it from someone who's been there and done that. It will not last. Let the married guy move on, he just wants you for sex.
2006-10-30 20:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the feelings for the married guy. He probably doesn't have any intention of leaving his wife, he just wants some action on the side. If he is showing interest in you at work while he is still married what will keep him from showing interest in other ladies if you two are ever a pair? He is not trustworthy and is definitely not a guy to pursue.
2006-10-30 20:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by Lyf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a married man tells you that he'll leave his wife and that he doesn't see a future with his wife, that's a sign he only wants to get into your pants, and doesn't want a relatoionship with you, because deep down, he still loves his wife, he just doesn't get that excitement with his wife anymore. The statement a married man made about leaving his wife, is to lure you into his trap, once he gets what he wants, he'll kick you to the curb. So be smart, and stay with your boyfriend, if your relationship with your boyfriend is as good as you described, then stay with him, don't get involved with a married man. If you dump your boyfriend for him, and if he does kicks you to the curb after he got what he wants like I said, you'll regret it.
2006-10-30 20:34:05 · answer #4 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I think that that is pretty funny that he says he doesn't want to leave his wife becuase he can't see a future with her...but isn't getting married to someone having a future with them?
Wow...
You need to let him go, he is married and playing with your head. Break up with your boyfriend first... He does not need to be treated this way. This is very unfair to him. Would you like it if he was doing this to you?
2006-10-30 20:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not happy with his wife why would you leave your boyfriend for some on like that. stay with your boyfriend he wants to be with you. but the other guy sounds like he just wants to play around
2006-10-30 20:31:54 · answer #6 · answered by Robert H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys ALWAYS say they are going to leave their wives...it's crap. If you are bored with your boyfriend don't ditch him for a married guy. I know you probably think I'm wrong and that you're special and the married guy is sincere but don't be his fool.
2006-10-30 20:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by DeborahDel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well my advice is for u to stick with the one u know more how would your bf feel if u leave him for a next guy and he didnt do u anything would u like it if he do something like this to u?
2006-10-30 20:31:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think about going with a married guy, even he will be divorced soon. it looks like you and your boyfriend are doing pretty well, don't ruin it now. or you'll regret trust me.
2006-10-30 20:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by step 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋