they both crossed the line with the excessive amount of calls but it the conversations all were about "our problems". zHe tried to lie & deny it but I found out anyway. Did I blow this up or was it disrespectful to go behind my back & call her as often as he did? And it was TOO OFTEN
2006-10-30 12:25:57 · 7 answers · asked by hopeful 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel the same way cuz my boyfriend calls my cousin who is also my best friend to ask for advice..it pisses me off cuz he has no business callin her...my advice for u is to try to get over it and show him that its no sweat off ur shoulder but keep an eye on how many times they talk and if u see that its to often, even after uve said somehthing to him, then u have the right to call them both out on it... good luck!
2006-10-30 12:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by blank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is calling her then something is going on. try to talk to them seperatley a little but if it still looks like they were just a bit too close then amke sure he knows to KNOCK OFF THE CRAP. and if u think it needs to. make the **** hit the fan. show that ur pissed off. if he is worth it keep him but if u think this is uncorrectable then make it VERY known. ur friend is a different matter. if she is/was ur friend then talk to her. find out exactly what they were talking about. depending on wether or not u believe her and wether or not she is in the wrong here u have every right to be pissed off. if he just went to her for advice then that mgith not be such a big deal. obviously thats bad on his part but not entirely on hers. he Should Not have gone to her he should Talked To You. and She Should Have Told Him TO Go To You. U HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO BE FURIOUS WITH THE BOTH OF THEM.
2006-10-30 12:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by i.WoNt.SaY.iT. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE'S your best friend you said it
he knows that she is a mini copy of you and it was difficult for him to face ya with all what he thinks about the whole problem thing and stuff
RELAX he LOVES you he just needs reassurance that you really care about him from someone close....Coz definitely you won't lie about how you feel about him to your best friend
2006-10-30 12:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by sweet cherry78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself, it was only talk. If he needed to find out, something about you, but was afraid to ask you, who else could he ask.
Only someone, who knows you the best. And that's your best friend.
Either you trust them, or you don't, and it seems that you don't.
You just could end up, losing them both.
Think about it. Don't let jealousy, ruin your relationships.
2006-10-30 12:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something doesn't sound right. I highly doubt they were just discussing your problems. It is disrespectful of him but I would watch my back around her as well.
2006-10-30 12:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is disrespectful and yes he may have feelings for her --- but it does not mean she has feelings for him --- she may have been trying to help you
2006-10-30 12:30:39 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants her sorry dump him
2006-10-30 12:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋