What's the best way to ask a friend's little sister out (admittedly we aren't that close friends)? dont want to offend him or his sister and my intentions are admirable
2006-10-30 12:02:29 · 18 answers · asked by iwantedalbino 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From a big brother's point of view, so long as you're honest, trusting and respectful to her feelings then even if you friend isn't cool with the idea at first, he'll come around if he sees that you're treating her right.
Be honest and up front with him from the start. If he's a friend, he should know enough about you to tell you're a decent guy. I don't even know you, and I can tell you're decent just by asking this question. This shows you're putting their feelings before yours, and that is admirable.
Tell him that you like his sister but also tell him about your concerns about your existing friendships. Make your intentions known, and he should be fine about it.
If you're confident enough, then ask her out. If you're unsure, then try to build on the current friendship, ask your friend for advice, find out common interests, etc. But whatever way you choose, if you ask her out, she will appreciate it. So have courage and continue doing this the right way and you'll be fine.
Hope it goes as it should.
2006-10-30 14:27:28 · answer #1 · answered by Marc M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a little sister and this is a common problem
If you really like the girl then take a chance because she will admire you for it - taking a risk for her
Do it respectfully though and if you know your intentions are not good don't bother its not worth the hassle
2006-10-30 12:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by Brown_Sugar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not show this child any part of your body. You could go to jail for indecent exposure. This is really a serious matter that needs to be told to the girls parents. If she has a crush on you, rejection could cause her to make false accusations against you of a sexual nature. Tell your parents immediately and have them talk to the child's parents. This is really serious. Take action today. Added note: Her parents need to know about her behavior before she asks a pervert this question who could rape and murder her. Telling her parents is protecting her.
2016-05-22 13:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be v careful. A friend of mine has started getting ribbed @ uni 'cos a casual friend of his started dating his sister, which he didn't even know, & has gone round telling all his m8's how good she is & what she enjoys, so now all their mutual friends have started teasing him. Your casual friend might be scared that that's going to happen this time. Though I'm sure you aren't 1 to kiss & tell (well, I hope you're not)
So, yes, do approach your friend, tell that you like his sis, Then start being friends with her, start hanging out together & take it SLOWLY from there.
2006-10-31 23:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by Bubbly Blonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres no harm in asking a friends sister out , my brother asked my sister out and now there getting married
2006-10-30 21:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by sadsnelling 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well think of a nice approach to ask your little sister friend out maybe you should start being friend with your little sister friend until you'll be able to ask her or him out without any problem but it's upto you
2006-10-30 12:40:39 · answer #6 · answered by Lord Glyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a nice guy and I'm sure that your friend would not take it in a bad way if you asked his sister out unless he knows more about you than you want him to know !!! ( your bad side, if any )..... If there's nothing to worry about then just go ahead and ask her.
2006-10-30 12:07:25 · answer #7 · answered by dd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u need to first to become friends first. Then when u get to be best friends then make ur move but for right now he will get offended and u don't want to start any drama because of it!
2006-10-30 12:06:53 · answer #8 · answered by brownsugacookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know her really well, and flirt with her for awhile before asking her if you haven't already....then she'll get the picture and will be more open to the idea (and maybe her brother will get use to the idea of you two hanging out)....I don't think it would bother her brother too much.
2006-10-30 12:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act with discretion: first consult your friend, then go to the sister. How you put it to the brother is very vital.
2006-10-30 17:58:52 · answer #10 · answered by B i n g o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋