ok there is this one girl i hav in my 1st period and its music and i play the marimba's.well anyway she just hits me w/ the mallet 4 no fricken reason!! she hits me on the head,shoulder,stomach, legs everywhere!! i try and ignore her but she just keeps doing that!! i tried telling her 2 stop she wont stop!! a while ago i even told the teacher (which is always my last option) and he said dont talk 2 her get away from her!! so i started playing by myself but she just keeps hiting me and making fun of me!! and 2day she hit me so hard on my nuckle that its became purple!!! now its better but it still hurts!! what should i do?? can she get suspended 4 this?? im scared that if i tell she will get even more mad and will pick on me even more!! and im a freshman in high school btw.
2006-10-30 11:52:31 · 20 answers · asked by magictanya2003 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
c i dont want 2 b expelled or suspending 4 fighting! besides i dont want 2 figh her!! she will beat me up and i will probably b laughed at 4 the rest of my life
2006-10-30 11:56:24 · update #1
she is also a freshman but she is bigger then me...shes taller and tougher...i think shes tougher? well tougher then me
2006-10-30 11:59:24 · update #2
and this guy started doing it too!! and if she says something mean about me everyone laughs! even my friends if they hear it!!
2006-10-30 12:04:24 · update #3
and if i try 2 defend myself she just laughes
2006-10-30 12:06:14 · update #4
well i know how to fight, so i would have kicked her *** by the first time she put her hands on me. but since you night not have my skills, try to confront her, bcause if you dont more people are likely to do it just 2 look cool, and if it leads to a fight, always aim for the face, screw body shots, ALWAYS aim for the face. good luck. i
2006-10-30 11:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by Dark Angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you allow someone to use you as a punching bag, then they will continue to do so! If you don't knock the "S h i t" out of her, then she won't ever respect you! Even if you have to sneak up on her when she is alone, especially if the people in authority are not helping you, and you have no other recourse left! The only options you can try is to talk with her alone and ask her why she does it; or go to a new school; or learn how to fight!
There are enough problems students have to deal with in school these days, such as keeping up the grades, dealing with the opposite sex, and trying to graduate on time without worrying about your personal safety, or dreading to go to school because you are in fear of running into a "bully". If you try to kick her "A s s" and don't win, she will at least know that you are no longer going to take any of her bullying. I'm not trying to advocate fighting, but we have to make a stand at sometime in our lives! Believe me, if you don't make a stand at this age, then it will affect you for the rest of your life. You will be in a "victim state of mind", even as an adult! It is a matter of personal survival, emotional and physical ! Let me know what you decide, or do! By the way, she can get suspended if you have reasonal proof of her actions toward you! Keep a diary or log with dates and times of each incident!
2006-10-30 12:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by macfifty06 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is ridiculous. You have no righ to be harrassed by this girl, and should tell someone about it. Sounds like so far, your teacher has not helped the situation one bit. I would recommend talking with your parents about this, or to a school counselor. She has no right to be hitting you, and clearly you have tried to talk with her, but she won't listen.
I can understand why you would be worried about her getting mad at you if you told someone - but, what are the options? You do nothing, and continue to get harassed, or do something about it, and maybe she'll get the message that being an immature jerk isn't the way to go - I mean, your in high school, not kindergarten! She needs to grow up.
2006-10-30 11:57:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well since you guys sound like your in high school, maybe the girl likes you (friendship) but doesnt know how to get your attention, or doesnt know how to be social either. Or maybe shes jealous of your for some reason, and making fun of you, makes her feel better about herself. Or it could be because shes just a bully, and maybe does it to other girls too. I would def. talk to your parents, teachers, guidance counselors or even the princibal, if the abuse is getting ridiculous. She has no right to do that.
2006-10-30 11:56:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl get the mean side out of u Punch her in the face next time and Say ********* hit me next time u W.h.o.r.e and u will be sorry so next time stay the hell away from me. Yeah ok u will get ISS suspended. But it not biggy i had to before so did brother for harsament from another studdent . Just make that ********* to show u respect thats all.
2006-10-30 12:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I 've had this problem before. The best way to deal with it is by embarrassing her and scarring her for life ( just kidding) but one time my bully kept hitting me and I got so fed up that i stood up and yelled in front of the whole class " WILL YOU QUIT IT!!!" I swear, she never hit me again. Everyone stared at her for like 10 minutes and she turned bright red. Try it.
2006-10-30 11:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by hotchica90210 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's a bully and is intimidating you. Hit her with your marimba and see how she likes it. OR take your problem to a higher source. OR move away from her.OR the next time she hits you, fall down and act unconscious, that's bound to grab the attention of the teacher.
2006-10-30 11:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by jammer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid to report her! She shouldn't be doing this crap! No one should! If that don't help, then drop the class and pick up another. Learn how to stand up to the bullies. She is just being stupid. Be smart, and yell at her to stop it!
2006-10-30 12:19:14 · answer #8 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's bc of the response she gets out of you is enjoyable to her.........you need to somehow act like it doesn't bother you or laugh when she does it like you think it's funny, if ur big enuf, hit her back playfully, but be careful, school's r tough when it cmes to who startes what. Tell your principal if nothing else, and your parents......def
2006-10-30 11:56:54 · answer #9 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell the teacher his suggestion didn't work and he needs
to do something about it himself. then tell a councilor
and the principal. do not hit her back, then you will be
the one in trouble, though saying really loud and clearly
"will you please quit hitting me!" might at least force the
teacher to acknowledge that something is wrong. bullies
never stop on their own so keep drawing everyones'
attention to her and making her the target of their eyes.
2006-10-30 12:11:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋