I have liked this guy(who is 21 yrs) for a very long time since i was a freshmen in high school and i just graduated this past june and i still like him dont know why but i just do. we would go out sometmes during high school but i gave it up to him last year in november my senior year in high school, but then he disapeared and i didnt hear about him for while then i saw him about a month ago and he asked me for my num.Now he calls me so i can go have sex with him and he talk real bad to me but hes always calling i even have to turn my phone off so he wont call but the reson i had sex with him in the first place was because i really liked him and i though we were gona get together but it never happend. I havent had sex with anyone but him and he treats me like im his toy but i still talk to him cuz i still like him not as much but i do. I really sucks having to like him and him not to care..
2006-10-30 11:46:15 · 5 answers · asked by boo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What the hell is wrong with you? !You should have been left him. A man who treats you like that deserves a dollar store hoe. Get over him, now. And then you need to call the police. he used you to get sex, and he'll keep using you until you speak up for yourself. You can't let a guy treat you like that, ever. Have some self- respect.
2006-10-30 11:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by hotchica90210 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are not a sex toy so you should just leave it alone before you get hurt even more than you already are. Secondly you need to take you and a close friend and go get a mini makeover, you know nails, hair. that sort of thing and take some timefor you and a girl friend to get away. You need to make sure you take care of yourself. word of advice in the future dont sleep with a guy just because you think you are going to get together. Cuz now you are going to be feeling guilty for doing that the rest of your life. and thats not good for your health. and make sure you leave him alone. and if it gets realy bad change your number.
2006-10-30 20:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by lil_frosty93654 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's using you for sex and mistreating you why are you even asking this question? Girl, move on. I hope I don't sound harsh. I had the same experience with the man I lost my virginity to. Except for one difference. We only had sex once. I didn't take his abuse for long. But seeing as how I lost my virginity to him, I was smitten. I couldn't take it, and I cut him loose. You need to do the same before he does real damage to your mind, body and sprirt.
2006-10-30 19:51:26 · answer #3 · answered by bride_to_be 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should you keep something or someone in your life if it just makes you to feel this way? by acknowledging that he is using you, and continueing to allow it to happen, you are setting yourself up for heartache. just move on and let it go, worry about yourself and someone will come along that appreciates you.
2006-10-30 19:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by don't be rude. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes dont stalk him or just be his friend.
2006-10-30 19:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by UdOnTkNoWmE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋