how do i get the girl i really like to notice me? shes really shy and almost always silent how do i get her 2 notice me and talk to me?
2006-10-30 11:45:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OKAY, well here's what you should do...
1. You need to talk to her.
2. She might not be as shy as you think, she may like you and be nervous around you. Depends on the girl, I guess.
3. Let her know that you like her.
4. Drop a hint that you like her, ask her out for a date, OR buy her flowers and give them to her. <
Def do the flower thing. That's totally sweet. Any girl would fall for that one. Any girl.
Good luck babe!
2006-10-30 11:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be kind to her. If she's really shy and quiet, she probably notices more than girls that are always flirting and acting crazy. She'll notice when you say her hair looks cute or the joke she said was so funny!
I'm like that. I'm really quiet, but I notice how a guy acts even when he's not talking to me. I like to see if he's nice to other girls and older women (his mother, teachers-if he's in school or college-, and sisters!)
best of wishes w/ you & this girl! It's good that you're interested in her even though she's a little quiet :)
2006-10-30 19:51:58 · answer #2 · answered by ♥honey♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl you like is the shy one you need to approach her first. Try to ask her opinion or for her help on something of her interest. Maybe you can ask her to help you pick out a gift for your sister or your Mom. Tell her you would like another female's ideas on these gifts and you think hers would be great. This will start conversation because she will need to know more about the person you are buying for then maybe you can help her with a gift for her brother of dad. This will then get her talking about her family, always a good ice breaker. Maybe even a chance to say her family seems interesting and that you would like to meet them.
2006-10-30 20:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by Sciencs project 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what kind of things she likes to do, or what she is interested in. If you can find a few subjects that she really likes, then she will be able to get over being shy and talk more naturally to you. Sometimes shy people just need to hear someone talk, just don't over talk, pause occasionally to give her time to answer. She will come around.
2006-10-30 19:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by pecksun8 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From a girl's point of view I would tell you to NOT come on too strong or make it too obvious. Just act natural, and spend a little time with her. Not alot of time though bc then everyone will be all up in ur business and rumors might start around school, and that can be quite embarrassing sometimes. Basically, just keep ur cool and show a little interest.
2006-10-30 19:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by q 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You talk to her....depending on how old she is and how she dresses you should be able to tell what she is like .....and going from there give her something nice like for example if in her binder u notice that she carries tons of pictures of cats then give her a beannie baby cat....you know to break the ice......
be cool but dont act too cool either cuz then you can look like a jerk or a dork!!!
good luck!
2006-10-30 19:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by A. RMZ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to let her know that you are interested. I use to be very shy when I was in high school, and never dared to go upto a guy and start talking to them, I would just let them come up to me. She is not going to do the first move, so you need to step up to the plate and let her know how you feel about her, you never know she may like you too.
2006-10-30 19:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by girlieGIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since the girl is shy u have to be the one to go up to her and talk to her, give her eye contact always smile at her and that will definitely get her to notice u
2006-10-30 19:49:01 · answer #8 · answered by Misses 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm really shy too. First of all you have to make the first move. Try to get to know her. Once she feels comfortable around you she'll open up. Most shy people have low self-esteem so tell her you think she is perfect.
2006-10-30 19:48:40 · answer #9 · answered by hermione3291 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the girl but to really get her to notice you you can do several things. you can be loud in class and pretty much be the class clown which depending on who she is may or may not get you far or you can just go talk to her. Obviously she will notice you if your talking to her.
2006-10-30 19:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋