what would happen if i asked out my best frend an she said no would it ruin my frendship and what if she siad yes what would happen then?
2006-10-30 11:41:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say ask her how she feels abouts u honestly and if she says she likes u more than a friend then go a head and ask. but if she doesn't just be friends for the time being and she might come around. Actually I am sort of in the same boat. I like a really really close friend and I was wondering the same thing.
2006-10-30 12:37:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either way your risking your friendship, if she says yes, what happens when you have a falling out and no longer together? You'll have lost her friendship also. This is a tricky one, you really need to decide what it is you want and could these feelings be there because you both are such good friends? Our emotions tend to get in the way of realistic thinking unfortunately.
2006-10-30 11:45:24 · answer #2 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! If you never do then you won't ever know what could have happened. Just take the chance and if she says no then tell her that its fine and the last thing you want is for things to be wierd between the two of you. If you never ask her then you will never know if she feels the same and what could have happened between the two of you. Good Luck and remember to always follow your heart!! :)
2006-10-30 12:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by Tennis2127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either way you would ruin it!
ask her and she says no: then there will always be akwardness between the 2 of you
ask her and she says yes: then it dont work out and you 2 break up then you will most likely lose her as a friend
so find another chic
life isnt always the way hollywood makes it to be
2006-10-30 11:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by SaDiE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it´s your best friend and feels the same way... everything will be just great... in the other hand... if she doesn´t, maybe she will want to give u some time to get over it... so she can recover from the "shocking news" as well.. good luck! I´d say take the shot...!!
2006-10-30 11:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by thysa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friendship would change. if she said no then just forget about it for a while. then just go out as friends somewhere you both like to hang out. now if she says yes that's a whole different story. i would say do what you would do if you asked any other girl out. i don't think it would ruin you friendship. it would just probably make it awkward though.
2006-10-30 11:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's ok. Just don't make it awkward excpet no easily if that person says no. Tell them u don't want it to ruin u 2 but u must tell them. Or just start by firting and c what kind of reaction u get from them
2006-10-30 11:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by do you know me? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its a good idea to ask her out if shes really ur best friend
2006-10-30 11:44:23 · answer #8 · answered by bam_is_mine1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth my best friend was going to ask me out but then he found out I was already dating but it never affected our friend ship. SO............go for it!!!! go....go......gooooooo!! If she said yea go for it dont be neveros
2006-10-30 11:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by UdOnTkNoWmE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's your best friend...that'll be awkward for both of you.
2006-10-30 11:45:21 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋