Ok so my friend which we might be going out soon asked if i wanted to hang out at the mall saturday and i said sure. So i probably can score $40 and i need to know what i should use it on for her and how i should act and what should we do at the mall. It would be pretty pathetic to ask her what should i do and act. So my question is... I need a guide on how we can have a good time with $40 and how should i act. Also, what should we look at and do and buy her? Don't be afraid to post websites for guides on how to be a perfect guide. Also if you give me an answer remember to be descriptive
2006-10-30 11:41:14 · 13 answers · asked by John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm 15 and she's 14
2006-10-30 11:44:10 · update #1
Just talk to her, ask her how shes feeling, and interact they way you normally do. If youre trying to plan out every detail then you might get hung up on trying too hard, or at least looking like youre trying too hard, which can sometimes be a turn off. Just be yourself and have fun. Stop worrying about everything. You will do fine if you say funny things that dont make sense and laugh at yourself. If she likes you then she will laugh too. If this girl is worth your time she will only appreciate you if you are being your true genuine self. Dont listen to these other phonies who say spend all your money on her. If thats all she wants from you then she can go get a free lunch from some other guy. Usually its never about money, but sharing some kind of experience with someone. If you want to really experience something together then join the Church of Scientology together and save your money for the church. Or, you could just hold hands.
2006-10-30 11:50:46 · answer #1 · answered by Gary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, so you have known her for how long now? She's not going to care about that $40. Take her to a movie, a funny one. Go to Starbucks and get her somthing like a giant cookie to share or a Frappucinno. Then just go around the mall and start talking about stuff like the movie or school life or anything like that. Oh, and hold hands because that's really cute.
2006-10-30 19:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by nerd.:) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to put on an ACT. Just be yourself. She is probably nervous too. Ask her what she'd like to do. Perhaps you could meet up with some other friends there and hang out as a group rather than just being 1 on 1.
2006-10-30 19:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by jammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok u need to organize ur money, like 15$ for food if u want to buy her a gift or not and if they have those picture booths u should save sum money for that... those are sooo cute! i wish my guy best friend would take me to get one of those..... mostly make sure u have enough for a food and maybe a desert afterwards. also if they have a movie theater at the mall it might be kewl to see a movie with her afterwards
2006-10-30 19:45:31 · answer #4 · answered by ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her lunch, get pictures taken in one of those cheezy photo booths, and get her an ice-cream cone... Don't blow 40 bucks on her at the mall... You shouldn't feel obligated to buy her anything... Although it's nice when the guy picks up the tab for lunch.
2006-10-30 19:44:13 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mostly, stick to the arcade and food court, buy her icecream and games at the arcade, im a girl, and this is what i want from a guy at the mall, also get her lunch 2, what ever she wants
2006-10-30 19:43:35 · answer #6 · answered by bam_is_mine1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
David be yourself for one thing,she likes you for you,you don`t have to buy her anything just cause your hanging at the mall.buy her lunch perhaps,but chill a bit she seems to like you stop trying got impress her so hard
2006-10-30 19:45:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
those kinds of things should not be planned. once you get to the mall, and all these lights are flashing at you then you'll know what you have to do. if you plan it then you won't have any fun. just let loose
2006-10-30 19:44:13 · answer #8 · answered by crazy4harryp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you should be normal and you got to know that you don't really have to buy her something with your $40,but it would be so nice to have ice cream or lunch together,she would be happy,
good luck !!
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2006-10-30 19:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋