Ok, you might want to read my other posts so you can fully understand this. But i have liked this girl for about 2 years and we have been best friends sence like 2 years ago. Now she dumped her old boyfriend and i wanted to go out with her so i finally decided to ask her. She said she dosen't know and i asked her why. And she said she didn't want to break our friendship and if we broke up it would be stange to hang out as friends again. So i've asked her a couple of times if she has decided yet and she always replies with i'm still thinking so my question is... How long do you think it will take, Should i stop asking, and is there any way to convince her it would be alright if we broke up we would still be perfect friends. You can tell me excatly what to say if you want. Just i love her (and this isn't puppy love i've felt crushes and love and i know this is love) i actually cried a bit when i thought we wouldn't be able to go out. And i am not obsesed with her.
2006-10-30 11:36:02 · 3 answers · asked by John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, but you don't understand that she brushes up against me and we hang out all the time. She never said no she said she s thinking there's a big difference
2006-10-30 12:00:20 · update #1
I was reading what you wrote and you are saying that she is your friend but,she is not going around with her boyfriend anymore and you think that now, is your chance to ask her for a date, since you have always had feelings for her more than being a friend. why don't you read what you wrote in your letter,when you asked for a date and she said no, because she did not want to loose you as a friend,what she meant was she does not want to go out with you because she only wants you for her friend and nothing else. I know that sometimes love hurts and it is not a good feeling but, if she does not want you as a boyfriend be content to be her best friend for now. Who's to know that in the future she will reconsider and will be able to see you as more than a loyal friend, and if by that time you have not met someone else. Good Luck in your future. and have a little dignity be proud of who you are. No, pun intended.
2006-10-30 11:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know, but sometimes a girl does need to think for a while. You don't know how much goes on in a girl's head, especially after she's just broken up with someone.
Like,
I like him, but what if we break up?
I've known him for so long, so what if we know too much about each other?
What if he ends up with someone else?
What if he starts likeing my best friend?
Who am I going to talk to if we get in a fight?
Just tell her that good relationships are between the best of friends. Just give her some time and be supportive of her, and i I bet you'll end up marrying her! The Best of Friends become the Perfect Couple!!
2006-10-30 19:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by nerd.:) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just let her one more time that u think ur guyzes realationship will still be there if u guys dont turn out to be a perfect match, then just wait... this could be a really tuff decision i know i wuould hate to lose any of my guys best friends..... they dont care about most things that other girls do.... so all u can do iz respet her decsion in the end
2006-10-30 19:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋