I'm really into this guy and he sleeps in the same college dorm that i do, practically next door. A month ago he started having some problems with his ex and in that situation was where we met. He sleeps with me but he just doesnt want to do anything, Ive gave him some hints about having sex but he just wants to wait. Is there something wrong with me?, he says he;s really into me.I just dont know.
2006-10-30 11:33:46 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a good thing. Maybe he wants to get past his ex completely before diving in with you. Give him his space, he obviously respects you, appreciate that.
2006-10-30 11:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think you should slow down. Not everyone is into having sex right away. Some people like to take it slowly and get to know the other person better. Some like to wait until they feel they are in love. Some may have rushed into relationships previously, so they want to take it slowly the next time.
He could still be feeling the effects of the ended relationship. Let him take his time. Enjoy the weeks of "just holding hands"- once you leave that innocence and tenderness- there isn't any going back.
Just enjoy!
2006-10-30 11:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in a similar situation...You should just act like the not having sex doesn't bother you. Not to push any morals onto you or sound mean but he just got out of a serious relationship do you remember when you were in that situation? Did you wanna have sex with the first person you met? Hopefully not! Anyways he probably likes you too much to risk losing your friendship this early after his break up. GIve it time. Good Luck!
2006-10-30 11:40:34 · answer #3 · answered by madisonsmommy2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is something wrong with you. You have only known him a month and you sleep with him and give him hints about having sex with you. You have no morals. Not only that but you are trying to make him get rid of his..
2006-10-30 11:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by misterbig356 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend ... just chill a little bit. You should feel lucky that you find a guy who respects you and would rather wait until the relationship grows into something more beautiful to have sex with you.
Just respect his decission, trust me .. all the fire and passion are going make the sex so great great when you finally sleep with him!
2006-10-30 11:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by Nicegal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I was him, I'd really appreciate the offer, and take full advantage of it- to the point where you'd say 'stop', and no further. But as for him, he's probably still not over his ex. Until then,he's basically using you. He want's someone to comfort him, without giving you what you'd like to have in return. I'd make him get over his problem before being with him romantically,aka. b/f g/f. I only give you my best opinion of what's going on.
2006-10-30 11:41:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for this situation i have to say that you are going to fast which is making him feel unconfortable. just wait a few weeks or maybe a couple of months and when he feels confortable then it will come. there is nothing wrong with you. he just wants to wait to see if you are the kind of person he wants.
2006-10-30 11:36:27 · answer #7 · answered by Patrick Teh III 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's got something going on down there that he's embarrassed about. Have you seen 'it'? Maybe he's not over his ex, and he would feel guilty about having sex with you. You never know, he could be waiting for an STD to clear up. Have you asked him yet?
2006-10-30 11:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by ฿└ΛÇκ ĦΘŁỀ ŞЏП 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He is a good boy so don't pressure him into it. Maybe he wood want to kno u a lil bit longer before u do that. Nothing is wrong wit that. And he did jus get ova his ex so maybe he needs time
2006-10-30 11:37:55 · answer #9 · answered by Mariah p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like this friend of yours. He's wise enough to know what to do and what not. Most of all, he shows respect for you and himself by abstaining from sex at this infant stage of the relationship.
Don't rush into things. You're going after his love for you, not just the physical.
2006-10-30 11:41:08 · answer #10 · answered by dickson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋