What would you do the first time they cheat on you?
2006-10-30 11:22:31 · 22 answers · asked by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-30 11:27:33 · answer #1 · answered by Scott G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how serious we were. If it were less than serious, I would probably cheat on them as well. No.. I'm kidding. That wouldn't solve anything. I would probably let the first time go but if it happened again... I would boot their sorry *** so far, they wouldn't know what hit them. Then I would ring whomever they cheated on me with and fill them in on all the horrible qualities my ex had! Hope that helps!!!
Although, the more I think about it, the more I realise... once a cheat always a cheat. Hmm.. this is a tough question. On second thought, I think I would end it straight away.. and then hook up with their best friend! Ya! That's revenge for ya!
2006-10-30 11:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by Chloe M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would (and did) dump my husband or boyfriend the first time they cheated on me. I let all my love interests know that cheating is not tolerated, and if they do decide to cheat they will no longer be with me. I don't share my men with anyone.
2006-10-30 11:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im gonna say the girl who cheated and then dumped him only bec. she obviously wasnt into the relationship to be getting some on the side. The only thing I wonder is if she'd have a harder time based on the fact that she may be consumed with guilt.. But thats unlikely
2016-05-22 13:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did forgive but if you decide to forgive him/her you have to make sure you can completely forget about it. I tried to forgive bu t i never forgot, it ate at me every time his phone rang i wondered who it was, This happened to me over 3 years ago i am still with the same guy. I do not know for a fact if he ever cheated but i received the dreadful phone call that he was, i confronted him and of course he said "no" i let it go and don't mention it to him but i have to tell you I still to this day think about it and I am now very insecure when he even talks to another girl, even it is innocent. You might be better off moving on, it can absolutely drive you crazy if you keep thinking about it
Good luck
2006-10-30 11:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by njchic1025 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump them in a heart beat if someone really loved u they would never cheat
2006-10-30 11:27:59 · answer #6 · answered by nova_av 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for the most part the second i see my girlfriend cheating on me for another guy i personally would dump her because when you are going out with someone you should stay true to each other and not do crap like that.
if anything like that happens just end it do not put up with crap like that
2006-10-30 11:27:21 · answer #7 · answered by Patrick Teh III 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i was cheated on...long story short...i hated him for a long time. but then, i dont know why or how, i was able to forgive him...i guess i always knew in the back of my mind that some day, not sure when, we'd get back together...well, 7 years later...we're still in touch and although we're not together...at least i can say we are friends...i guess it depends on your situation and if they cheated more then once on you, you need to get out of it. you'll know what to do...just listen to yourself!!!!!!!
2006-10-30 11:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gave my girl a 2nd chance...it is very hard to give them another chance. Alot of hurt. Not sure i would ever do that again. You lose the trust too much.
2006-10-30 11:26:53 · answer #9 · answered by Richard J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We live together so I would say make him leave. Someone who loves and respects you doesn't cheat on you.
2006-10-30 11:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
cheat once will cheat again,, I would show him the door and tell him out you go.. I would ignore him and never be with him again. cheat on me once , cheat on me again.. never..
2006-10-30 11:30:43 · answer #11 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋