Well, this guy who i dated a few months ago, broke up with me for another girl, it was bad. then he dates that girl for like 2 months. then he starts talkin to me again. and we are still talkin. but then i think that he starts to like that girl again, and it kinda scares me. but now, there is another guy that i like who likes me. and i don't really know what to do because i'm afraid he's gonna hurt me again. so please help me.
2006-10-30 11:15:05 · 17 answers · asked by angelgirl_694207 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's just palying with your head. Dump him
2006-10-30 11:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for the other guy... i had this problem too... obviously theres a reason why you 2 broke up to begin with, and sure its possible you could give it another chance.. and so on.... but just go for the other guy, be friends with your ex, but dont date him. if your afraid hes gonna hurt you again, then that means in a way, you dont trust him, and sure the trust could grow, but then again, it may not. like i said, youve given it a chance before, you broke, and there had to have been some reason why... hope i helped. Good Luck
2006-10-30 19:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out with the guy who could possibly like another girl. You'll end up getting hurt, trust me. I went through bull like that. Even he says he likes you and not her, it will constantly be running through your mind that he could be with her still and he is trying to hide it from you. He's most likely a player. He'll try and be with as many girls as he can so he can think he's this big man and stuff. Don't give him the benefit of the doubt. Don't date him anymore. Be his friend all you'd like but don't be with him.
2006-10-30 19:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might be a little out of the question but go for the "new" guy! If you're with the guy and your ex is nearby start making-out with your new man in front of your ex and show him what he's missing! And if he asks tell him he had his chance until he hurt your feelings. since he's f u c k i n g w/ your head play with his!
2006-10-30 19:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by paigekamp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the fact he hurt u and u still talked to him after leavin u like that made u look weak in eyes. that is why he prob is talking to this girl again he might feel he has u whipped. don't think of this as a battle u lost think of it as a battle u will win u will walk out with ur head held and ur pride intact. he sounds a lil immature and that he wants to still play games. let him play...u keep on walking girl. and hey it isn't like there isn't another hottie who is intrested in ya right...hee hee smile not all is lost
2006-10-30 19:21:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's putting you on the back burner. Kinda like well if this new girl doens't work out he'll always have you to fall back on. Plus, it sounds like he's only looking for something "better", he'll always be that way. If this new guy you like is good to you and you seem to feel comfortable with him just see where that goes!! GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-30 19:19:25 · answer #6 · answered by collegegirl_85 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw the dude that dumped you!~ He is obviously not worth your time. If he did it to you once,who's to say he wont do it again? You cant let men push you around like that ! Be strong! Dont show him you still care, because he will break your heart again.
2006-10-30 19:20:55 · answer #7 · answered by paintedpony72601 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay the guy who dumped u why r u still even entertaining this guy.. he dissed u for another girl and then desides he doesn't want her so then he goes back to u like nothing happened and u allow him to.. see girls like u r the exact reason why guys treat us like shyt.... set some boundaries for urself and let him know u refuse to be 2nd to anyone.. just be friends w/him.. don't waster ur time again...
2006-10-30 19:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go out with the old guy, he broke ur ⥠once and thts enuf!! try the new guy, dont be afraid cuz soon enuf everyone's gonna break ur ⥠u jus gotta decide whos worth the pain
2006-10-30 19:20:15 · answer #9 · answered by &d. i. l. i. hawt; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your ex down right now. If he wants to date somebody else. Do the same. Don't let any guy do you like that. Dump him once and for all
2006-10-30 19:18:10 · answer #10 · answered by Zolex1981 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in life we learn from our mistakes,dont jump into the relationship too quick,take your time get to know him a bit more.play hard 2 get for a while,make sure he really wants to be with you,coz if you wanna rush,to make your ex jealous,you`ll be in for a nasty surprise,you could end up losing both sides.
2006-10-30 19:24:22 · answer #11 · answered by SEXY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋