I we were together for 2 years and he cheated on me a couple of times. My friend said that he was a dog anyway becuase I stayed a virgin till august of this year. We just got back together because I still love him.
2006-10-30 10:50:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know that you love him and love is a powerful emotion which we have no control over. What we do have control of however is our lives. You deserve so much better than this. Please believe me when I say that there is someone out there so much better for you. Someone who will love and "respect" you so much more than this man that you are with now. The hard thing is that you are not making yourself available to mr Right by holding on to this man that does not do right by you. Its your call, but i am sure that deep sown inside you know that this man is not going to give you a lifetime of happiness. You only live once. Leave this man, go through your heartache now and get over him. That way you can then move on and enjoy life with someone that wants to enjoy it with you and you only.
2006-10-30 10:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by mountain girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you see love as a sacrafical romantic thing. It isn't all just romance, it is trust and honor and faithfulness.
If he cheats over and over again -WHY do you stay with him.
Learn what love is. Love is a two way thing. You are one way and he is faithful when he wants to be.
Time to figure out who you are and what you need. I really can't understand what there is about a cheating man that makes you want to stay. But then maybe you like being emotionally abused.
You may love him forever. All of us have had someone we love and adore but can't be with. Respect youself enough to find a guy that can be all you want,and part of that is being faithful.
2006-10-30 18:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on you because he's a lying cheater and you took him back, which he took to mean you accept cheating. He has learned that he's free to cheat on you because despite your tears and anger, you really don't care enough about being cheated on to find a loyal man. Your feeling of "love" is more important to you than being treated with respect, honesty, and loyalty. He knows few woman- expect you- would tolerate it, so he's got an easy ride.
2006-10-30 18:53:47 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your choice is either to find a guy who will truly love, value, and treat you with respect, or stick with this guy even though it has already been proven that he only cares about himself (not you) and is willing to do things that will make your life miserable.
To rephrase:
Your choice is either to have a good life that you enjoy, or be a miserable person forever.
Now that you understand your choice, I think this will be more obvious to you. It might hurt you to lose him, but it is nothing to sacrifice a short, temporary period of pain for a lifetime of fulfillment.
2006-10-30 18:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by يا حسين 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's no good.I forgive a person for cheating on me, and you know what. He did it again and again. We're not together anymore. There's someone whos going to love you enough not to cheat on you.
2006-10-30 20:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by sharon j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you crazy? once I could see but a couple of times? I don't know, are you just asking for trouble? Good luck, hopefully he doesn't stray again.
2006-10-30 18:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by tray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men who cheat are losers, drop him before Its to late, and start taking care of yourself. Men who cheat should have their testicles removed.
2006-10-30 19:12:35 · answer #7 · answered by Blackjack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes obvesly an idiot if ur decent enough to take something lik tat back than your amazing hes an idoit u desver better
2006-10-30 19:04:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not you, it's him. truly. i think there people out there going around that should be punished for getting a girls virginity and leaving them. that sucks. good luck
2006-10-30 18:54:28 · answer #9 · answered by zenasrager 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i agree with your friend i am sorry that this happened to you but i feel that he will do this again so do what is best for you.
2006-10-30 18:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by jolynn j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋