Ok so there is this guy that I thought I liked. So last friday I kissed him on the cheek. It was nothing big or anything just a small sign. Then today I realised that I really didn't like him. I finally got to know him better over the weekend and so now I don't know what to think about him. I know that I definitely don't like him. Well I found out from my best friend that he likes me and is going to ask me out and he thinks that I like him alot because of what happened on friday. I don't know what to do. I really want to just come out and tell him, but that just doesn't seem right. what should I do???
2006-10-30 10:49:05 · 17 answers · asked by Brandi P 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As tricky as it is you need to let him know how you really feel - sooner rather than later. It will get even more tricky if you let things carry on. A peck on the cheek is no big deal so don't worry about it. If he does ask you out again then just politely turn him down - blame yourself or whatever you feel you need to make it easier on him. It's definitely better to sort it out sooner and you can then carry on with things without worrying.
2006-10-30 10:54:16 · answer #1 · answered by minotaur 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, for one thing, the guys probably asking you out because of what you did. the best thing to do is to let him down gently as you can, tell him you like him as a friend, or something like that. just dont make it too harsh on the guy, because you did kind of start it. so, dont come out and tell him straight, but you do have to tell him, otherwise youll just be leading him on, and thats not good either. just try to be gentle about it.
2006-10-30 18:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by potato head 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When that male asks you out, give him a tactful, honest reason why you cannot go out with him. That way you need not think of a story that may backfire on you.
Now if he changes for the better and asks you out, do give him a chance. Go on a group date so that there is lesser pressure on you. Please remember: it is okay to say no.
2006-10-30 18:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by tranquil 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should give him a chance as a bf. maybe when you got to know him over the weekend he was just trying to show off. you can't say no after you pulled the kiss stunt. that's like begging for him to ask you out. it's just mean to say no after that. give him another chance. maybe he will turn out better.
2006-10-30 18:52:37 · answer #4 · answered by SARAH ~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
especially if he doesnt seem right then tell him how you feel so he doesnt develop into like a stalker or just plain a pain in the rear its seems like you cant get the ones you like to even notice you and the ones that make you barf want to crawl inside you go figure right Good Luck!
2006-10-30 18:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him and then yo9u can feel better. Y}ou didn;t ecpect things to lead on, but when you kiss someone on the cheeks with intentions it can be misleading and that hurts feelings of those anticiapted.
2006-10-30 18:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you want to do is right because if you don't talk to him and get everything cleared out he'll probably think you still like Him just talk out it with him and u din mess up whatever happened was okay sometimes stuff like this just happens so relax and TALK IT OUT.
2006-10-30 18:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by devil_diva2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him down easy, just say that the kiss was something that was between you as friends nothing more . . . .
2006-10-30 18:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him you found out but not by your best friend cuz u dont wanna lose her....just say you were confused and would rather be friends...who knows you might just be scared and regret it later on.....thats what i did ;-\
2006-10-30 18:51:29 · answer #9 · answered by melissa168716 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to ask and say No. If he doesn't ask you, you're cool. Don't stress yourself out for nothing.
2006-10-30 18:57:23 · answer #10 · answered by Zolex1981 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋