I am in love with a girl! I have know her since i was 4! I didnt start liking her until she had her first boyfriend! She is on her second. I have never felt jealous until she started to go out with this guy. I have told her how I felt twice. Her boyfriend does not like me, i dont care. I know I have a big chance with her like 85%yes 15%no. I cannot stop thinking about her! I need help!
2006-10-30 10:45:39 · 14 answers · asked by Kyle F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes you are and if you just wait and let her get over her boyfriend, maybe you'll have a chance. Now that she knows how you feel, let her come to you. A lot of girls don't want to date their guy friends because their afraid of losing their friendship. Its not easy to find a guy you really are JUST friends with. She may like you back but doesn't want to say anything because she doesn't want to ruin anything. If your young, there is no need to rush into anything. My mom married her best friend of 20 years after dating every other guy in the world except him. Sometimes, it takes a while to realize your feelings for someone. Give her time. She'll come around.
2006-10-30 10:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can not stop thinking about her, let her know. You only live once. And yes there could be rejection, but its better to know her feelings then not. Also consider, Does she flirt with you? How much does she think of you as "just friends". And your age, if you are young it may be that she isnt looking for someone she knew for ever. But like I said, telling her is the first step.
2006-10-30 10:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by devildoll502 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes youve told her before, but do it again, you need to make sure she knows... ask her if you would ever get a chance to date her. ask her how she feels about you, and maybe she'll get the point, and break up with her boyfriend, and give you a chance. but then again, maybe she'll just want to be friends for now. respect that, alot of times friendship turns into a relationship. Good Luck
2006-10-30 10:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said you have told her twice????
what did she do? i don't know how to help you but i think if she care about you and if she don't like her boyfriend you would have that 85%yes.
i know how you feel ,it's hard that you just discover that you love her after she got a boyfriend,something like this happened to me once.
2006-10-30 11:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know hoe you feel because i like this one guy but he doesn't know and i can't stop thinking about him. he is perfect. but i know that i need to tell him one day but it looks like you have already done that. did you tell her in person or in a text message or on aim well if you didn't tell her in person then you need to. and don't just say hey i like you tell her that you always think about her and you wold give anything to be with her. and you would treat her like a princess it should help and then if she still won't go you with you then i think that you should back off a little bit and maby start hanging out with other girls that will make her second guess herself if she likes you. hope it helps! :)
2006-10-30 10:51:43 · answer #5 · answered by allie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMGG
I have the same problem
. . .Except I would nevr tell him how I feel
IT SUXXX huh?
All I could say is that her relationship with this guy WILL NOT last if it wasnt ment to be
YA KNOW??
Once they break, you ask her out
If she says no, then it wasnt meant to work out in the first place
And I know how hard it is to move on, so I wouldnt recommend that
The guy Im in love with, yeah Im trying to get ovr him, but I absolutely cannot
So good lUck with this girl. . .
And if you have anymore girlish q's,m letme know
Ican prolly help
2006-10-30 10:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by vanilla_mafia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her straight from your heart the way your feeling, and make it clear that you want to be with her as a b/f & g/f ! ! ! ! Try asking her out and chatting....
2006-10-30 10:48:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her out to lunch as friends and tell her how you feel...she will never know what you are feeling if you dont tell her
2006-10-30 10:48:34 · answer #8 · answered by melissa168716 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her everything you just wrote here! Good luck!
2006-10-30 10:49:02 · answer #9 · answered by Paige 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel.
2006-10-30 10:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by theresa kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋