This 16yr Friend of mine here in Canada meets this 14yr old girl over the net in the UK. This is his first girlfriend he's ever had and he keeps saying he's in love with her, and now he's planning on spending hundreds of dollars just to meet her in person. I told him it wasn't a good idea and he got pissed, whats your opinion?
2006-10-30 10:39:21 · 11 answers · asked by Aniatario 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really isn't a good idea, but there is little you can do to stop him. Relationships like this seem ideal for mid teens because there is so little physical embarassment. It is easy to push a lot of the awkward things aside for an online relationship and young boys may have a hard time screwing up the courage to talk to a girl in person.
All you can do is try to talk to him and hope he loses interest one way or another.
2006-10-30 10:42:50 · answer #1 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea either but he will have to learn the hard way.I think u should keep the rest of your opinion to yourself.When he comes back from the trip and is very discouraged then a good friend would be there for him.It isn't worth losing your friendship with him just to get your point across. When it comes to young people thinking there in love they have to find out the hard way. Good luck
2006-10-30 18:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad Idea
2006-10-30 18:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by littleredoutlet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BAD BAD BAD idea!!! tell him that it could be really dangerious! i know this sounds weird but u need to teel his parents about this! he could into some serious trouble!!
please don't let him go! if u care about him at all then u wont let him!!
2006-10-30 18:45:44 · answer #4 · answered by Emy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would let him do it. Otherwise, he will always wonder what it would have been like. But, you better tell him to make certain it is ok with her parents.
2006-10-30 18:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right to have told him this-did you tell him if this gets too serious for them right now, that they could get in trouble with the law?
2006-10-30 18:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard enough having my boyfriend 180 miles away ...
2006-10-30 18:41:03 · answer #7 · answered by led_hanner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That your right.
2006-10-30 18:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by vancie121 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, he's desperate.
2006-10-30 18:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Ms. Heart♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him do it.. you never know how things might end up.
2006-10-30 18:44:32 · answer #10 · answered by gabsters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋