My boyfriend says I let him wal all over me, i can't stand it. he can be a really good guy, but he's nasty to me so he can "find his limitations" i need help. and i don't think breaking up is the answer.
2006-10-30 10:39:13 · 7 answers · asked by Confused1012 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is saying that you are very passive people pleaser. He wants you to have your own opinions and be willing to stand up for what you believe in. He really doesn't want a push over, he want a girl who can say, no, or who can say what she wants without being controlling.
What is your favorite color? hey don't look to him and see if your answer is ok. That is a simple explaination.
If he says jump...you say how high. Wrong, he wants you to have your own personal boundries.
Please don't wait until you are 50 years old and emotionally abused by a man to figure out who you are.
You need to figure out how far he can push you. He shouldn't have to find out....you should let him know. And that is what he is looking for, is a girl with backbone.
2006-10-30 10:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try finding his limitations too! Don't let him walk all over you, he'll keep doing it and it will get worse! Find things that pushes his buttons and use it to get to him. It's hard, but once they know you can't be walked on, then he will back off
2006-10-30 18:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by tray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to kick him in his balls. But I wouldn't recommend it cause i'm a boy and trust me it hurts like hell. I rather get my hands cut off rather than someone kicking me in the balls.
2006-10-30 18:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by max p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so why do you stay with a man that is nasty to you....?!??! you are worth and deserve better.. but its only up to you... on how you want to be threaded...
*maybe you just like to be threaded badly.... if you do dont complain, we all choose how we want to live.
2006-10-30 18:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by caifan_909 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try boxing gloves
2006-10-30 18:40:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try sarcastic answers, and be quick at them
2006-10-30 18:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by Preeti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him wut u really think. be open
2006-10-30 18:41:41 · answer #7 · answered by swatkid000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋