There this boy i like named robert and he goes to my high school and i liked him forever and i was on myspace and he wrote to my sister that she was hott, that hurted my feeling sooooo bad when i saw those word what should i do it's gonna be pretty hard to foget about it, should i be mad at him. because when i told him he didn't seem liked he care. omg i fell like crap!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-30 10:34:39 · 16 answers · asked by catwomen322003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds rough, but there's nothing you can do, right?
It'll take time, but you just gotta accept the fact that he's not thinking the same as you.
2006-10-30 10:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by _Zith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, this question really broke my heart. I don't think anybody can tell you NOT to feel a certain way, however , my only advice would be to view this dilemma NOT in a negative light, but to value yourself very highly and maintain self esteem REGARDLESS of what the outside world, and this boy, say and do. Hotness is a temporary thing, and over rated. Your brains, education, and outlook on life are more important than anything. Your relationship with your sister is something only you know about, and is forever, so, see if you can work things out, and not be angry over ONE guy. If you love yourself, others will love you, too. Guaranteed!I really feel for you.
2006-10-30 18:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by eileen k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you like him does not mean that he automatically is going to like you back. You should not let the fact that he told you sister she was hot- maybe she is simply an attractive person- nothing to get mad about. I sugguest that you just tell him how you feel about him or just ask him out on a date- you gotta at least let him know- then allow him to make up his mind about being with you. don't get mad at him or the things he does towards other females- it makes no sense- your wasting your time and getting stressed out over something that you can't change- and that's his opinion and personal right for who he choose to like or date.
Besides you said you liked him forever- but has he known this information forever- commuication is a very good tool- use it
2006-10-30 19:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by shalirha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that really is sad that is a heart breaking story im sorry that happened to you it hurts i've been there before,
The fact:you have to forgive
why:its like not forgiving god
also:what comes around goes around ,to him because he didn't care plus over the years you will turn to be the beautiful girl then he will soon want you back but you will not let that happen because you know what kind of guy he is you will find someone better. oh pls dont think im lesbend im just telling you the facts of life
2006-10-30 18:43:19 · answer #4 · answered by marys secret life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you don't feel well. Robert is not for you. Believe me, someone worthy of you will come along and Robert will be a mere memory.
Please know that at your age your hormones are raging and you may be emotional. I know at your age I was and I never thought a boy would look my way.
Trust me, you will go on to having relationships that make you feel wonderful. Good luck.
2006-10-30 18:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by Juanitaville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your still in highschool, so even though it doesn't feel like it now, you will get over him and move on. You'll find someone who likes you as much as you like them. I promise! Just sit and have a real good cry, let it out, then move on. Good luck. You have your life in front of you, remember that! It's his loss!
2006-10-30 18:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by tray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY??? would you even like a boy who makes you feel like crap???? You deserve a boy who makes you feel like a PRINCESS!!! I'd rather be a princess than crap!!!! Wouldn't you??? There IS a boy for you but this isn't him. I guarantee he is going to make your sister feel like crap one day too!! Wait and see!!
2006-10-30 18:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by Bijous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do people cry over guys... i mean come on! As soon as i saw the word "boy" in your thread i was like "im not gonna even read anymore" ..... why are you crying over some guy.... do guys ever cry over us!???? You are making yourself look dumb and him look like GOD! Ur gonna cry over someone who isnt even thinking about you anymore but thinking about your sister?? .... right......... there's plenty of fish in the Sea!
yeesh get over your self.
2006-10-30 18:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, he's not worth your time. Find a guy who actually cares.
Good luck
2006-10-30 18:41:11 · answer #9 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to really tell him how you feel. If he doesn't care maybe he isn't the one you are looking for. You never know.
2006-10-30 18:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by Brandi P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋