Cancer, bankruptcy, more surgeries, lost son, mental health declining, no friends, parents distanced, no professional help
2006-10-30 10:31:22 · 33 answers · asked by catzrme 5 in Health ➔ Mental Health
no money, too disabled to work, no significant other, no pet, debt, medical bills everywhere
2006-10-30 10:32:32 · update #1
It sounds like it can't get any worse. Hang around awhile longer and see what happens. Why throw away the chance for one more magical moment of life? You have suffered so much that one day, someone will be able to learn a great deal from you and maybe that will make it all worthwhile. We all die. Wait it out. You never know what you might miss.
2006-10-30 10:36:31 · answer #1 · answered by Steve M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First let me say that you should live because you are an important person whether you want to admit it or not. My God doesn't make any junk!!!! Second it sounds to me like you are focusing more on all the bad things in your life instead of focusing on the good things in your life. It will be very hard at first but you can do it. You also need to look into getting some professional help. Don't worry about not having the money to pay for it. There are tons of places that offer free counseling. Get with your local Health Department and they will be able to give you a list of places that offer free counseling. Help is out there you just have to be willing to take the first step in getting it. They aren't going to come knock on your door and find you. In order to do that you have to really want it. It sounds to me like you do. Just have some faith in yourself and you can overcome this. Good luck!!!
2006-10-30 10:37:59 · answer #2 · answered by Laura D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you are not alone. There are many others who are in your condition or worse and they have faith. I know it doesn't make sense now, but every painful thing that you're going through is for a reason. Your life in its current state is the beginning of your testimony. If you don't believe that things will start looking up for you soon, then you're wrong. You may not know it but everything that you do effects others. God said that He'll never put more on us than we can bear. You can fight this and win. I know you're heart is heavy, I know you feel alone, but you're not. I've already prayed for you and your family, and if you haven't done so, I suggest you start. If you don't know how, just talk. He will hear you and listen, and help. You are going to be blessed whether you believe it or not. You will be released from the bondage of illness, the bondage of debt, and the bondage of loneliness. I've been there. When I didn't know how I was going to eat, and how I was going to get out of debt, or get medication. God came through as I prayed and decided to fight back and stay strong. Yes, it felt like it was one thing after the other. But I couldn't do anything but stand and trust God. And He stepped in as He always does. Just like He will for you. You haven't come this far for nothing.
2006-10-30 10:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry you are going thru such a hrd time in your life. Do you have any other kids? Find something you love so much that you do not want to leave that person, pet, whatever behind and fight to keep yourself from getting so down that life does not feel worth living. I am fightting the same thing right now. The reason I stick around is my dogs. They are really the only things that I have that make life bearable.
2006-10-30 12:46:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry. I am sorry that you are experiencing this and I want you to know that there are people who care. I realize that you are short of money and so you can probably not afford a psychologist. If there is any way you might find
If you still have loved ones, please open yourself up to them. If you don't, talk to someone online. Bottling up feelings is never a good thing.
It might seem like there is nothing else to live for, but you should hang in there. You can opt to give up and not have any more surgeries. No one can obligate you, and I'm not saying you should, but it is a chance many people take.
Here is a link for you that I found. You might find the information helpful:
http://www.cancer.gov/cancertopics/coping
Best wishes.
2006-10-30 10:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there are people that would die inside if you were to pass away. Especially by your own hand. Email me...I dont have a degree in psychiatry, but I know a lot about it through reading. I will listen and talk with you as much as I can, and maybe we can become friends. I want to tell you first, I do not pity you. I feel an ache in my heart that you would consider suicide, because I know how hopeless things can be at times....or rather, how they seem. I suffer from something else entirely, but I can relate on another level to your pain. Please, before you hurt yourself, contact me. Say whatever you need, whatever you want....I'll listen. I'll give you advice if you ask, or want it. But please, consider contacting anyone, before making an exit that would inevitably kill some people inside. We are all loved more than we know, by many more people than we could ever imagine. I wish you all the best, health, help, light, love, happiness, peace, but more than anything, HOPE. All my heart, Jenn S. My email is trukchik99@sbcglobal.net, please, consider contacting me. If Im only a shoulder to lean on...Id be honored.
2006-10-30 10:42:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain, honey. I am in just about the same boat, but I have lost 2 children to miscarriage and have absoulutely no chance of trying again. I ask myself that every day.
The thing is, though that God has placed you here for a reason. You are here to serve a purpose and when you have done your duty he will come for you. You haven't done He wants for you yet.
Think about it this way, you're already at the bottom, so there's really nowhere else to go but up. Wait and see what happens when you go up.
2006-10-30 10:40:25 · answer #7 · answered by real_sweetheart_76 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
things may seem bad, but the more you focus on the bad things and not the good youre life wont get any better. Have fun, go somewhere and make new friends, enjoy life. You only get to go around once so live each day to the fullest. Ive learned that very well. Ive seen over 15 teens die in my area in the past year, from my high school. It taught me that tomorrow isnt promised so you have to live each day to the fullest or else you wasting youre own life. God gave you a life and its your decision how you live it, so live it well.
2006-10-30 10:40:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is so precious, inspite of all that you going thru there is hope at the end of your rope. Just when you thought/think that the water is about to flood your mind,Think on these words. The lord will never forsake you....all that you are going thru is just God testing you to see just how strong your faith is. The test is that you are still here inspite of all that mess!. You think not living is the answer to your problems,I beg to differ with you. This too shall pass,You are in a dry place cast all of your woes unto him for he will surely work it out.Look at the people who survived KATRINA..........don't tell me you can't make it.
2006-10-30 10:44:08 · answer #9 · answered by Renee F 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The reason we are Born, into this live is because we all have a mission, before we past away to the next level in life. If you kill your self what are you going to tell God? I don't think he would be to happy with you. Just hang in, don't give up. BE Strong, i know you can beat this bad luck, it will go away in time. Take care:)
2006-10-30 10:39:55 · answer #10 · answered by robertrobinson7 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋