calling someone a bitc-? should i say sorry?

Question

I was involved with this guy, and he pissed me off. Really bad. he always uses profanity toward me when he gets mad, but he's never called me a Bitc-. The other night , I called him one. I know it shocked him because I've never done that before. Should I call and apologize....even though he's talked REALLY bad to me in the past?
He's never apologized for yelling and talking bad to me in the past. he makes up excuses for his actions.

Answer 1

nah,why , you must have made a fast and probally true judgement.

Answer 2

It doesn't sound like you're really sorry, so why apologize when you're not sorry. You do know that bit&* refers to a female(dog) usually so calling a guy one really isn't appropriate it. There are other names you call them....

Never apologize for something you don't really feel sorry about . You're probably better off without this guy if he verbally abuses you alot.

Answer 3

Yo Tell da Happy Snowman to go ******* & earn 2points somewhere else cuz that type of input ain't needed.... I did the same thing Once & my ex was the same way, honestly I use to use the word all da time before I got involved with him but he made me realize how cruel & nasty of word it can really be... Yeah u could apologize to him for it BUT "let him know his approach towards u in the heat of his frustratiion or anger needs to be taken another way as well" because that's causing you to react in ways that are out of character.

Answer 4

First, why are you still in this relationship if he is that bad to you and doesn't apologize? Second, would you want him to apologize to him? Well, then, I think you should apologize to him and explain to him how you feel. I mean, your feelings should matter to him. Even if it may seem hard to apologize to someone who doesn't do the same, you should apologize...

Answer 5

I think you should stop being involved with a guy with a temper problem. He obviously lacks the ability to control his anger. Name calling becomes pushing, and psuhing becomes hitting and hitting becomes beating the crap out of you. It's called abuse. You might say "oh he'd never do that" but all the women in domestic abuse shelters would roll their eyes.

Answer 6

First of all you don't need no one who is going to belittled you as a woman. And yes you apologize that makes you the better person and he won't have nothing to hold against you.

Answer 7

if he's talked so badly to you and you still feel bad about what you said, call him and apologize, but tell him why you did it.

tell him that he calls you worse and even though that does not make you right, it still does not make him right. you admit you're wrong and if he accepts your apology, then he is admitting he is wrong and maybe he'll stop the nasty name calling.

Answer 8

You are not responsible for his actions... Regardless of HIS actions, your actions were wrong... You should apologize...

Two wrongs never make a right... Three rights make a left...

Answer 9

What he has done to you is not acceptable. I think the guy deserves to be called B tch. Don't be guilty. You don't owe him any apology.

Answer 10

it felt good didn't it.. do like he does... make an excuse for why you said it... plead temporary insanity... be like... i just had a long day and i was tired and not really feeling all that arguing and shi*.. you know... work your mouthpiece and your jelly... good luck...

Answer 11

Don't become your boyfriend, keep your self respect and say your sorry. You will feel better for yourself.