2006-10-30 10:28:06 · 13 answers · asked by Kandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it!! It happened to me when I was that age and the sex was Grrreat!!!
2006-10-30 10:30:51 · answer #1 · answered by HIMSELF 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that each are two people, but they each are at different levels.
If the 21-year old (we'll call her Julie) thinks that she's mature, she'll realize sooner or later that she lost her youth to this guy. Does he want kids right away? What happened to just being young?
If the 36 year old (we'll call him Sam) thinks that he's young, he'll realize sooner or later that he's fooling himself into believing that he's someone that he's not. He's not 21.
I'm sure that Julie wants with all of her heart to get married. However, when you're that young and you finally find someone who doesn't like to belch the ABCs, the blinders come on. Don't give up your youth for Sam.
Age IS an issue, regardless of whether a couple looks at it or not. You're both at different maturity and emotional levels. Love isn't the only thing that's going to be required to make a relationship work--think again. Don't base it only off of love.
Yes, I'm sure that relationships like this work. However, why? Why would a 21 year old need a 36 year old to be happy? Vice Versa? It can always work, but there are going to many issues, regardless of how much love/how mature/how great the relationship is.
2006-10-30 18:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you're fully grown so I don't see what is the big issue as long as you feel that you're mature enough to handle dating an older person. They want about the same thing you want it is just that they're on a higher level of maturity (at least they are supposed to), but I know people 21 that are ahead of their time. So as long as the both of you know what your'e getting into and don't let the age be a factor for everything, then you guys should be fine. My personal age range is between my age and 7 years is max.. I don't pick em' like that, but that's the average range that it comes out to be.
2006-10-30 18:31:51 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly fine. What's age got to do with it? What's important is making sure you both understand what type of relationship you're having. A 21 year old might have naive expectations.
2006-10-30 18:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by Chris T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess its ok as long as ur not under age and u truly believe that there is a good connection between u both. Age really should not matter.
2006-10-30 18:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess its ok. 21 you are not breaking the law. I think there is a big age gap. There will be problems with that. Good Luck.
2006-10-30 18:30:18 · answer #6 · answered by theresa kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they both agree,go for it. age is just numbers. you make it sound that 36 is old? no. let me ask you what do you think about a 24 dating a 48 yr old woman? that was nice!!
2006-10-30 18:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by zenasrager 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the older is a man, he must be VERY successful. If the older is a women she's got a very high sex drive.
2006-10-30 18:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Icky. These people both have some deep issues about their parents and maturity.
2006-10-30 18:31:56 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say you just want someone with a lot more ex ya dig
2006-10-30 18:31:36 · answer #10 · answered by beat it 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋