Why is it that no matter how good a person is, even if they are a little overwight but still very attractive that a man would go for someone that treats them like poop and cheats on them because they are more interested in having a trophy on their arm???
2006-10-30 09:44:25 · 11 answers · asked by carolyn_fw 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because men are very visual...and sometimes vain and shallow. In fact, when men and women listen to music, watch actors, look at people in general...we seriously prefer what looks pleasing to the eye. A lot of this is based on waht culture, the media tells us waht is "attractive." He's also young and immature, as you grow older, a pretty package that's empty becomes meaningless. Then you start to want someone who has brains, kindness...you look more to the soul and its goodness.
Of course, there are some men who never learn this. They are the men in their late fifties still running around paying for sex or constantly divorcing. You don't want a man like that. A boy in an old man's body. There are enough good guys around, so don't fret. Just focus on your happiness outside of men. Affirm and visualize regularly for a good relationship. And watch your thoughts and zap the negative ones.
2006-10-30 09:51:00 · answer #1 · answered by FeeFee le Mew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys are shallow and want to show what they have as a trophy. Little do they know..the trophy's are the ones with heart. Every guy that they know will eventually envy what they have. I have yet to find that person though.
2006-10-30 09:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by sea shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are like that, though I've met a few. Guys just like 2 see what turns them on and what doesn't. I think they have one area in their brains that tells them "oh look the perfect body" or something like that. I know it's confusing but us girls have 2 learn 2 live with it. After all, we marry these people right?
2006-10-30 09:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by Clearbrook 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is only true for some men. Not all men are this way. It doesn't matter what I look like to other men, my husband thinks I'm beautiful, and he loves me for me. This goes for many couples.
Not everyone is a size 2, big boobs, and beautiful, and society needs to embrace the wonderful qualities of different women.
2006-10-30 09:50:39 · answer #4 · answered by *Logan's Mommy* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because for some men, they only think with the head between their legs, not the head between their shoulders. They also want to be social climbers, and they do this by having a status symbol girlfriend.
2006-10-30 09:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, that is not always the way it is. I think it just looks that way to you because there are so many men and women who look and the bod and not on what is inside.
2006-10-30 09:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a biological urge. If your partner is beautiful then chances are your offspring will be beautiful too.
2006-10-30 09:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by Freddy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the oldest story in the book. Samson & Dehlila, David and Bathsheeba, Anthony and Cleopatra (break; this singer on the web radio Holly Brook is really good). the sweetest temptation ah yes, beware the thirst,..........turns to hunger..........turns to................to .............................................................
2006-10-30 09:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by donewithyahooanswers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is not just men women do it as well..become this stupid "paris hilton" spoiled brat life. I hate it!!
2006-10-30 09:47:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause men are a$$h*les
2006-10-30 09:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋