This guy that I have been talking to is not that attactive but we have great conversations. He is also shorter than me and I'm really big on guys with height. He is so sweet and thoughtful. He cooks for me everytime Im with him. I only know him for a few weeks so I just dont want to turn him down and hurt his feelings. What should I do? Oh and I just got out of a relationship. so...
2006-10-30 09:43:26 · 6 answers · asked by Tash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok so wht if he is short and not hot. its the inside that counts right. and i dont really like short guys but this one guy i like is short and hes really sweet .and i will give him a chance if he askes me out .i think u should do the same .lookes are not everything u know. just if he askes u out then say yes just like u said yal have great conversations and he is sweet. to me it sounds like u really do like him but ur eyes are getting the better of u
2006-10-30 09:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by irishchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u just got out of a relationship and u would need time to heal but u want to keep him as a friend. And maybe over time u will like him for real. If not you'll have a great pal.
2006-10-30 17:47:49 · answer #2 · answered by inneedofhelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Matbe you guys can just be friends. But if he likes you than contact alexandra0195@yahoo.com and I'll come back trust me im the in the advice colum and i get a lot of these so go ahead and i answer!
2006-10-30 17:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by Babygirl101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you'd like to be friends, maybe you will like him more and get over the fact that he may not be that attractive or tall, looks shouldn't matter if you really like someone. But just let him know you're not ready for a relationship and you'd still like to be friends. Hope I helped! =D
2006-10-30 17:45:54 · answer #4 · answered by xobigstarxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't it just as good to be his friend and not date him? If you aren't attracted to him in a sexual way make it clear to him you want to be only friends. This way neither of you will get too involved. Therefore nobody gets hurt.
2006-10-30 17:46:57 · answer #5 · answered by white oleander 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him you only want to be his friend
2006-10-30 17:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by mzvirgo19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋