can you help me!!!!? PLEASE!?

Question

ok.. I need answers.. and help.. PLEASE.. I am small.. I wear an A cup and get made fun of alot at school..
boys.. do u make fun of girls with small breasts.. girls.. do u get made fun of if u have small breasts?
how can I deal with their comments.. I mean it hurts my feelings sometimes.. its not exactly like i want them to be this size
I dont know what to say back and when someone else sticks up for me, if it hurts the person's feelins I get mad
I dont know what to do.... PLEASE HELP!!!!!!

thanx yall

Answer 1

If a guy makes fun of your breasts, make fun of his package! Boys in high school are ALWAYS insecure, so even if he thinks he's big, just make fun of it, say something like " yeah my breasts maybe small, but I can do something about that if I want to, what can you do about your small penis?" That'll get em.

I mean it's not right that they make fun of you, and then you go back and make fun of them, but the reality is that it happens, and beeing a teenager is a traumatizing time, you go through a lot, and this is also a time where you learn to survive, this in a odd way is a form of survival, because in the real world, it can get a big worse if you don't learn how to take care of yourself.

Also, I'm a 38D and I was a 38 C all thru highschool, and believe me, i love my breasts because they make me who i am, but I can't find a shirt that will fit me right because of them, also if I don't wear the right kind of bra my boobs make me look big! Best of luck!

Answer 2

I have small breasts and I have NEVER been made fun of, I think people are just being flat out mean.

I get the feeling you are in middle or high school so you might still have some growing to do. I know its tough, but you have to remember people are mean because they know it gets to you and they can tell you get upset. If you walk proud and ignore them, it won't be so bad. Another thing you should remember is that you probably have a beautiful body, you just haven't accepted it yet. Be proud of what you are and who you are. Your friends and family will love you big boobs or not, everyone else doesn't matter. I mean it, confidence and pride in yourself go a LONG way.

Answer 3

i too have small breasts. i wear a small b. i know what it's like. but u will find a guy who doesn't care! my bf likes big breasts but he still thinks i am attractive and doesn't mind them. it's all about feeling good about yourself. u gotta hold ur head high and know that ur not gonna take no crap from anybody! i usually wear push up or slightly padded bras to add a lil more to em. also i walk with my back straight and not slumped so they can stand more proudly. i also wear v-neck shirts that dip low. i found if paired with a good push up bra it can look like they are popping out a bit. anyway, there are tons of perks to small breasts. 1- they always look perky, 2- they will never sag, 3-they don't hurt your back or flop around when u try to run or play sports. if people make fun of you just tell em to **** off! if u feel good about who u r people will see past them and see a confident and happy woman. with the right attitude any woman can be drop dead sexy not only the one's with the big boobs! good luck!

Answer 4

First, how old are you? You body is probably still developing and you'll likely get bigger. I was teased in school for having small breasts too. My sister used to also tease me when I was in school, only mine wear still growing and hers stopped, now she gets teased. Don't let it get to you, there are more important things in life that the size of your breasts like getting good grades so you can get into a good college.

If it bugs you that much get an accurate measurement of your bra size from some place like Victoria's secret and buy a good fitting padded bra. However, good self-confidence works much better than padding. Hang in there.

Answer 5

Don't fret about it. I promise your gonna love your size A cup breast when you get older. You can wear all the cool blouses with no bra. Also they won't sag down to your knees when your 50. When someone makes fun of you just say something like: "They really bother you that much? I haven't had any complaints. I guess your the one with the problem not me." Then give them a cute smile, and move on. Believe me it's not worth it to worry about what they say. They are probably very unhappy and insecure people as it is and they feel they need to put someone down to make themselves feel better. Just be confident with yourself.

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Answer 6

People who make fun of other people's appearances are just trying to make themselves feel secure. These people probably have things they hate about themselves and by making fun of other people, it takes the focus off themselves. You could stoop to their level & say things back to them about themselves - or you could take the high road, roll your eyes at them, and tell them to grow up.

Big boobs aren't that big of a deal. Most guys who are adults will tell you it's really overrated. I'm 25, and most of my guy friends want a nice & attractive girl that they have fun with. Trust me - I'm an A cup too - people outgrow the urge to make fun of small boobs and find better things to do when you get older. I know it hurts now, but don't let it kill your confidence. Just remember, boobs are just excess fat! And who wants fat?

If you have to tolerate the teasing now, keep in mind that things won't always be that way. People DO grow up eventually. Hang in there =)

Answer 7

dont worry i used to be a double A and got called as flat as an ironing board then i came back after summer with D's and every1 was convinced i padded....i learned that it doesn't matter what people think because they are going to think what they think however you look.

with reference to how you can respond you definately should NOT feel bad because you can't help it.
the people who tease you aren't even worth a single word out of your mouth, they are pigs and by not shouting back a comment you are bettering yourself by not being reduced to their level

you should think about the positives of having small boobs:
-you could be a model on a runway without boucing and looking ridiculous
-you can wear any bikini/top you want without having to worry about falling out
-you have alot more choice in designs for lingerie because it will always come in an A

may i just add that even paris hilton some1 who is considered 1 of the most sexy women alive by men is an A cup and padded her bra till she was 18 because she was sooo self concious

Answer 8

The actress Goldie Hawn had your "problem" (and it's not really a problem because you are not just your boobs!) But she said on t.v. one day : "my butt is so cute that all the guys want it! "I'd bet you can even say something like that about any part of your body. Bring out your best features and focus on personality,too. Look at high fashion models! Big boobs are a liability to them!Don't allow others opinions be your source of self-confidence.

Answer 9

Helllo,
altho i'm not as small as you, i'm still small. And i didnt really have the "getting made fun of at school" but i think thats because i wear bras that are a little bigger... and i have a water bra.... which will make you look bigger (it does me) i'm about a "b" size so i'm not much bigger than you are. But try what i've been doing it works

Answer 10

If the girls make fun of you get some say "At least my boobs arn't dragging the floor" Hope fully it will help,if not be creative Girls with small boobs need love to ya heard