Me and this guy have been goin 2gether 4 a week and have liked each other for a year and he finnaly got the courage to ask me out and he dumped me today becuz he got a girl named lala to screw him and felt bad for it and got another guy to tell me and I had to go to his class and when he walked in I gave him a dirty look!!! All he could say was UMMM........ ILike a DA !!! And at lunch all he did was talk about how "GOOD" she was and I felt so bad I didn't even eat and I acted like a complete bit** to him !!! Wat should I do!!!!!!!!!!!!!Oh yeah there is also a really cute guy that likes me named Matt <3 shoukld I go after him or is to soon and would I be using him as a rebound!!!
2006-10-30 09:36:34 · 12 answers · asked by ROCKSTAR IN LOVE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, this is young love, here today, gone tomorrow. You guys are young and sowing your wild oats. boys especially, at this age, are not ready to settle down.
He's immature and selfish. He is a lost boy who is playing around and hasn't found himself or knows what he really wants. Maybe later he will grow up and you can see what happens.
Lucky you were with him only four weeks. Some girls be with a guy for years and then have their hearts broken. It is time to move on and update. Get a better guy!
You are right, to rush into relationshop, would be like rebounding. Most rebounds don't work. If this guy is cute and interested, don't waste too much time though...just take it slow. A guy likes some chase. Give hima little, bt know when to pull back without making him rejected...It keeps things alive.
Also you weren't being a b#tch, what your ex did was rude. But forgive him and move on...it's pretty typical of young teenage punks, ok? you got a whole life ahead of you and lots of lasting fun to have.
2006-10-30 09:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by FeeFee le Mew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only went with the jerk a week before he proved that he was not good enough for you. A week relationship is not really long enough to consider that you are on the rebound. Go for Matt.
2006-10-30 09:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like he doesn't matter anymore. The more emotion you show him, the more he enjoys it. Dont give him anymore dirty looks. Just pretend he isnt even there, nonexistent.
Theres no reason why you shouldnt date anyone else. You were with this first guy for only a week. Forget it and move on.
2006-10-30 09:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a guy who will treat you with some respect. Be glad the first jerk is gone. You can go after Matt if you want, just don't have revenge sex with him. That would be using him and would reflect horribly on your character.
2006-10-30 09:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget you old boyfriend, he did not have any respect for you! and do not take him back, it is okay to speak, he did you a favor, it is better to know now then later, about him. so do not lose any sleep over him, Just be cool, and have fun with Matt, no need to jump into a relationship right away, have some fun. concentrate on school work!
2006-10-30 09:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was only a week. Just ignore him, act like he doesn't exist. If he knows it bothers you, he'll keep doing it. By all means, go out with Matt.
2006-10-30 09:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by Lotus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well babe i am sorry this has happend to ya and i wish i knew the guy so i could beat his ne ways what you should do is give him the payback of his life and make him regret he ever did u that way
2006-10-30 09:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by alex b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be thick skinned about your situation. ignore him as much as possible at the moment until you feel you ready to face him without showing emotion on your face. he's an a'ssh'oe and move on sweetie
2006-10-30 09:43:00 · answer #8 · answered by sweetie k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for matt
2006-10-30 09:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by hellboy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go after matt
2006-10-30 09:39:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋