what should i do to get a girl friends?

Question

iam sylvester 21 yrs of age. i neither look gud nor do i have a girlfriend.. obviously!!! i seldom feel lonely n ma mind runs across different thoughts about death!!. i wanna get over this.I hate people when they say, "Oh!, u again.. u'll never get a girlfriend". but that's d fact all though i try i never get one.. even i try online sometimes i get but when i go with my friend they dun like me n like ma friend instead!!. n guyz u may say think all the possible ways to be yourself!! its gud to talk but in reality its not it,, trust me!!.. if u were in my place n if u were dark n not handsome.. you wouldn't have thought about it also!!!.. not juz gimmie a gud point, a reasonable point for me to take it..as i know i'm not worth it anymore...girls are outta d question!!!

Answer 1

Don't worry, man. Everyone says I'm beautiful but even I had thought I was not good enough and that death is good. Its part of life. Everyone gets that feeling when they are 21. Because that is the age when you change from a student to an adult.

There is no such thing as ugly. Everyone is good looking in a certain way. There is a girl for every boy and a boy for every girl. You just haven't met the right girl yet.

There is nothing wrong with having dark skin. Look at all the black who are popular, Michael Jordan.

A woman looks at a man's heart and not his face. If you are a good man, they will like you.

My husband is a good man. He treats me well and treats my sisters well. My parents died when I was ten. So he treats my sisters like his own daughters and they call him "dad". I love him for that. Doesn't matter how he looks but he is my man. Same way you will get a girl. Don't try too hard as a girl will think you are desperate.

You can email me at [e-mail]

You're welcome to email. We can be friends.

Answer 2

If you don't look like the Gap Troll, I honestly don't know why you wouldn't get a girlfriend. The first thing you need to know, but you won't believe, is looks are not everything. Girls care a lot less about looks than guys. What's important is having a great personality, being kind and considerate, and being able to make a girl laugh. Be a gentleman. Open doors for girls, etc. Be a good listener. Bring on the compliments, don't over do it. Be sincere.
Dress nice and in fashion. Smell good. Nice haircut. Good luck!

Answer 3

there is some 1 out there 4 everybody don't give up b patient. she will come soon & as 4 yr friends when u meet a girl don't bring the haters around b cuz they will put salt n yr game. i'm sure u have charm & personality flaunt it.

Answer 4

The answer is simpler than you think: Get a job that pays a lot of money. Then buy an impressive SUV.

You will be chasing them away from you after that.

Answer 5

Be yourself and when you like someone let them know never be scared of being turned down there is 2 perfect people for each person there is someone definitely out there for you

Answer 6

do you really feel that you need a girlfriend or dio you think its politically correct to have one, if your happy on your own, let it be, if your wanting a girl for the wrong reasons youll both end up hurt someday

Answer 7

if u speek like u type there is one of your problems but everyone has a fish in the sea sorry if it is takeing u a while to find yours but those are the best catches

Answer 8

ok, 4get food and just think about work outs!!! ABS, gurls are obssed with them!! and go to a spa and them u give u the whole makeover

Answer 9

just be ur self trust on ur self u will find a good one . for those ppl who say things like that **** them

Answer 10

I would focus on education.... girls tend to like people that can spell and write a sentence....good luck!