the guy i like was my boyfriend and all of a sudden he dumped me 4 noooo reason!!!!!! i am really mad but why did he dump me and plz no mean answers!!!!!!
2006-10-30 09:12:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your going to have to ask him...
There are several reasons a guy will dump a girl.
1. She became too high maintenance and he was tired of being broke all the time.
2. She became too annoying.
3. He found someone else to be infatuated with.
4. He found someone else that would grant more sexual favors.
5. He didn't want to be committed to a relationship, He wanted to play the field.
6. He became obsessed with her and wanted to know her every move and knew that it would kill the relationship.
7. He got vibes that he was going to be dumped, so he decided to dump first.
8. No good reason that would stand up under an argument.
2006-10-30 09:23:18 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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When a relationship between two people is built on "attraction" alone, guys usually tire of it in approxmately 6 to 8 weeks.
For a guy to be more interested in a girl more than "sexual attracton", he'll be looking for a girl that is really interesting, fun, spicy, open about things she likes to do, NOT a doormat always doing things he likes only;
and the kind of cool girl will let him know she likes him a lot, but she will also tease him when they are having fun (just little put downs about fun stuff, in a fun way [ not mean ] ).
She will show him all these things about herself BEFORE she gives him sex.
I know guys pressure for sex early, but they won't stay with a girl that gives in so easily.
The girl that the guy will stay with, shows him all about herself first, sets her boundaries, is firm about who she is, before she allows anything sexual beyond kissing and hugging.
Afraid he'll leave you if you are a little hard to get? Wrong.
The ONLY kind of guy that will run is a Player out for sex only from easy girls.
All the other guys, are really looking for a girl that is many things, and really interesting before sexual.
Other reasons a relationship doesn't work, when you did everything right, is when two people have a strong physical attraction, and a lot of like going on,
while some essential parts are missing in the relationship,
such as real trust, totally being like best-friends,
and true respect. Other elements that make love more sure are equal sharing and caring, fairness and no need for pride between you two. Both of you totally "understanding" each others differences, and wanting to give each other the needed space every person should have in a healthy relationship.
It takes time and proof
if a relationship will last long-term.
Take good care of your feelings/you heart, and only give more in small increments equal to what the other person is giving, and
let your love grow naturally with time.
I wish you love
stw
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2006-10-30 17:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does HAVE a reason for dumping you, but obviously doesn't want to tell you, possibly b/c you might cry adn whine over it and make too much drama of it rather than accepting it; or he doesn't honestly know why, but he knows enough that you're not what he wants. It happens. You can ask hiim straight up why just b/c you need closure, or you can force yourself to move on and get over it.
2006-10-30 17:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many reasons he could of dumped you, just be glad that he did it now before you got even more attached or before he hurt you badly. Just take it how it is and get over the relationship then find someone else.
2006-10-30 17:15:54 · answer #4 · answered by jbvo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eww.. that's not easy girlfriend.. at least you weren't married to him.. I was married for a year and my ex just left for nooo reason either! I know it hurts but you may never know the real reason. I say remember how wonderful and glorious you are and remind yourself how strong you are because of this. I know it doesn't feel like it now but it really is his loss.. What this guy has done, is made room for the perfect guy you are destined to be with to come into your life! Embrace it.. you may thank him later!
Good luck
2006-10-30 17:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by mochalattedeluxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy owes you an explanation! Next time you see him, ask him if you can talk. If he says he's busy, then ask him what time would work best. Don't leave him alone until you get an answer out of him!!! When you're talking to him, tell him that you don't understand why he dumped you and you want him to please explain it to you. Again: don't leave him alone until you get an answer out of him!!! And that, my friend, is how to find out why he dumped you. Good luck!
2006-10-30 17:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by Becca M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know him, so I don't know why he dumped you, but usually dumping comes with at least a little meanness, so if you're really looking for a reason with no meanness, good luck.
2006-10-30 17:14:33 · answer #7 · answered by krisski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really hard to say why he dumped you without a little more info. Could be that he found someone else and didn't want to prolong the relationship with you.
2006-10-30 17:15:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry about that but if you want to know why he left you need to ask him and talk to him about it. if he gives a reason try and understand it no matter how hard it is to take in and then try and put across that if you are able to change it will he take you back. if he doesn't give you a reason and says because he did then forget him and move on. you can do much better than him
2006-10-30 17:21:46 · answer #9 · answered by XX-SEXY-XX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There were no details on why he would have dumped you, so hard to say. Let him go and find someone else. There are plenty of other men out there, he just wasn't the right one.
2006-10-30 17:17:15 · answer #10 · answered by sea shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋